Anonymous #1 4w

if i’m just with my women friends then i wouldn’t bring him. if its a big group or with mutual friends then i would, if he wanted to go. i wouldn’t really love it if my friends just showed up with bfs to our plans of that wasn’t the plan.

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Anonymous OP 4w

Idk why it would be a problem to just tell them you’re not single and you’re going to invite him. If he chooses to not go then that’s a healthy relationship. If they’re upset he’s there maybe you don’t have good friends.

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Anonymous #1 4w

because why would a man be there??!! i personally wouldn’t invite the friend out if their bf has to chaperone everywhere we go. you can’t even interact with them the same bc its less comfortable. i’m saying that i wouldn’t invite my bf if i plan on just hanging out and dancing w my girl friends. my point is that i don’t consider going to bars/clubs cheating or being disrespectful and i would only date a person who thinks the same.

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Anonymous OP 4w

If your man makes you uncomfortable, why are you with him? Stay single

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Anonymous #1 4w

ok so you’re rage baiting, i see now. the point is if i want to just hangout with my friends, i’m JUST going to hangout with friends. i’m not gonna bring my bf, i’m not gonna bring my mom, i’m not gonna bring my dog and it would be the same if he wanted to just hangout with his friends. friendships deserve undivided attention as well. just sitting on the here being rude for fun. i don’t get it.

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