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As much as I follow Christ, I still struggle w lust heaaavy. It’s such a dilemma balancing the desire to have sex and abstaining
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Anonymous 1d

Just have sex lol. Make sure ur using protection. Religion is made up.

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Anonymous 1d

me asff but a different religion

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Anonymous 1d

If you want to succeed step 1 is not to go on YY it is all soft core porn

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Anonymous 1d

Focus on living the only life you have. Mythology isn’t the way to go. Live and love for yourself, not an idea.

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Anonymous 1d

i’m having this problem too, we could blame the world we’re living in all we want but it’s so hard at times cause there’s so many temptations and it’s so normalized

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Anonymous 1d

Which age range would you hook up with?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Right. We can’t blame our issues on the world around us, our mistakes are our own

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Felt that still, Islam I’m assuming right?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

yeah actually

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

still I can only imagine, human desire is human desire

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

yeah and i pray about it and im good for like a week but then its a cycle i cant break

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Just remember that you aren’t your sin, as much as you do fall short. We trust that the payment was made, and stand up every time we fall

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

which is why i’m thinking of getting married young so i don’t yk but idk

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

well you too then, we got this girly pop :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Me too, I want to as well so that desire will be for my wife but in the meantime it’s a battle

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Idk the opposite of girly pop but we got this 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

i would agree but if that’s the only reason it just doesn’t feel right

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

oh yeah fs i want to wait to get my affairs in order, my degrees and money stuff

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Gonna be a difficult path but hopefully a worth it one for yoi

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

but i feel like once ur in the marriage u find what’s hopefully your soulmate so i dont think seeking marriage for the purpose of avoiding zina is bad as long as there’s still love between you yk

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d
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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Yo mind if I steal this?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

🤭 yay go ahead

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Tyvm 🙂‍↕️

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

I know man that’s the struggle

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

None

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

I lived my life for myself and I failed every step of the way. My passions and desires didn’t satiate the hole left in my heart. It left me empty. Only Jesus fit there, only He truly gave me purpose and fulfillment, and true life

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I promise you, it didn’t. Mythology is all it is. You didn’t live for yourself if you didn’t find satisfaction. Reflect on your life, your goals, your desires. Not those forced onto you by a cult.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

I didn’t grow up Christian. I lived my life for myself. For lust, for my goals. You can’t tell me who I was or the life I lived

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Jesus was a dude from the middle east lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

yall don’t have to be disrespectful about it either tho

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