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Confessions 16h
Fuck hookup culture. Yall feed into it and then wonder why you’re not making any genuine connections and feel so alone
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Anonymous 16h

there’s gotta be some kind of safe & healthy middle ground where people are free to have casual flings now and then on the path towards developing more serious relationships I feel like hookup culture wouldn’t be such a problem if people just treated each other like complete human beings rather than using each other as a means to get off

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Anonymous 15h

I do agree. Some people who are in fwb situations feel like they are only valuable when it’s a booty call or just a hangout + benefits. It’s like you can’t even talk with that person on mutual ground when the majority of the conversation is just sex. I guess in this scenario, the only solution is patience and building a solid a relationship. Hookups however are different because you are using that person as a product for your needs. With fwb, at least there’s communication but still.

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Anonymous 8h

upvoting while feeding into it🫩

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Anonymous 15h

Well nobody made anyone do hook up that was decisions made upon each other womp womp

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

I guess I’m in the middle honestly

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 15h

It’s not womp womp to me I’m happily taken l just find it annoying how people complain about it when they’re actively taking part in it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

Well don’t listen to them complain problem solved

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

People complain about situations they out themselves in but you can’t force them to do right cause sin feels good but at what lost

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12h

People think casual = careless and it’s so fucked up. No one should ever be treated carelessly.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11h

Right. It’s actually pathetic how ppl think after one hu they can’t message you anymore after it. That’s why I’m trying to stop hooking up. Talk to me irl and I’ll let you know if I’m interested or not.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1h

Exactly, if a hookup is good and it’s a person im even remotely interested in talking to, ill text back Be the change you want to see in the world

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