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Confessions 3d

yeah id disown my child if they ever SA’d someone

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Anonymous 3d

Fair i would too. Then id question my ability to parent

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Anonymous 3d

I’ve told my little brother about consent and he gets it “don’t rape anyone” what’s so hard about that?

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Anonymous 3d

I would want some evidence of it because I wouldn’t want to immediately turn on them, but I definitely wouldn’t protect them from the consequences at all. I might not fully disown them if their victim doesn’t want to go to court and instead make sure they can’t assault anyone else (like having strict rules about when they have to be home every night and who they can be around)

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Anonymous 3d

100% they will be out of here

Anonymous 3d

Can you at least throw them in prison first?

Anonymous 2d

Idk if I’d be able to love them unconditionally at that point if I’m being honest. That’s just a level of evil I can’t comprehend

Anonymous 3d

As someone who knows and has to deal with a despicable parent just like this, seeing the amount of people agreeing with OP and downvoting #12 is restoring my faith in humanity

Anonymous 3d

Absolutely

Anonymous 2d

It’s people who think their wants and needs are priority above else. That they have the right to do whatever they want even if it harms someone. It boils down to entitlement, and mental issues like not comprehending empathy and sympathy. People who 🍇 are mentally deranged and I would still love my kid but fully believe they need life in jail and serious mental help because no 🍇ist should walk freely it’s a danger to everyone even their own family

Anonymous 2d

My brother SA’d me n my mom doubled down on her attachment to him for some reason

Anonymous 3d

same bro.

Anonymous 3d

As a parent isn’t it ur duty to correct their behavior though? yes they’re their own person and they can be a very bad person, but you brought them here if they’re gonna run wild and do bad things without the law stopping them then they’ll need discipline from somewhere. Disowning them would just let them be bad somewhere else without you. I’m not saying u have to love them but ya just my two cents

Anonymous 2d

It was your shitty upbringing that probably got them there,

Anonymous 2d

Holy virtue signaling

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Anonymous 3d

Might be unpopular opinion but if it’s my kid I’m still going to love them no matter their flaws, it is still possible to the love the person but hate the actions of them at the same time

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Anonymous 3d

Didn’t say anything about character or saying rape was ok but go off

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Anonymous

#1 3d

I’d totally do the same. Like wtf genes, fuck you! 🧬🖕

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mother_russia 3d

I would feel like I failed as a parent and just a person if they did something like that ngl

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mother_russia 3d

they’re still getting full disowned even if court is not involved. even if they’re a full grown adult they will never be in my life if they choose to harm others

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OP 3d

That’s fair, I personally wouldn’t like knowing they are out there still probably doing things and would rather deal with the mess I made (sort of)

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mother_russia 3d

i’d rather them be in jail. i’ve see parents who fully support the awful things their children do and it makes me sick to my stomach

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OP 3d

Oh absolutely, but if they aren’t taking them or court or anything then they aren’t going to jail unless they commit a different crime and get caught

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OP 3d

And yeah this happened to my sister when she got the school involved and his parents started harassing her even after he was found guilty. They are all horrible.

Anonymous

#11 3d

raping someone is not a character flaw. it’s downright evil

Anonymous 3d

youre despicable to say lying is just as bad as violating and traumatizing someone for life

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OP 3d

When did I say that. All I said was lying is also evil

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Anonymous

#12 3d

you’re bringing it up while discussing a completely different topic. do not act like that’s not what you were going for and do not use religion to say these two things are equal no one wants to hear it.

Anonymous

#4 3d

The thing is 🍇ists understand they they’re doing is wrong, they just don’t care. You need to make him understand how heinous SA is

Anonymous

#15 3d

He’s got a good head on his shoulders. It’s others we need to worry about. He cares.

Anonymous

#13 3d

If you rape someone you deserve to be disowned you deserve the worst fate if you rape and sa’d someone if my kid did that I don’t care how old I will disown them and question my parenting and will never have kids again

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Anonymous

#16 3d

Yes but at some point there is no correcting the behavior. You can disown an adult, it typically means cutting them out of your will and cutting all contact. At some point staying around them is just enabling tbh

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Anonymous

#19 2d

I’m sorry that’s horrible

Anonymous

#19 2d

That’s disgusting

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mother_russia 2d

Yeah i agree my comment was more geared towards children - young adults, and also noticing behaviors before the actual act of sa is important because correction can be proactive

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#16 2d

If it’s a child/teen i agree but they would need to get help because obviously they are mentally deranged. If it’s an adult absolutely not it’s no longer their parents responsibility to correct their behavior id make sure they are brought to justice and cut all ties.

Anonymous

#22 2d

idk me personally i just don’t know if i would ever be able to love my kid if they harmed someone like that (especially if they are an adult). i’d also rethink all my parenting choices if that were to ever happen but hopefully it never does.

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#23 2d

which is why im gonna do my best for it to not happen. no body wants their kid to become a rapist you dumbass

Anonymous

OP 2d

When your kid fucks up don’t support them, berate and abandon them, I’m sure everything will turn out fine. Its not like they’ll get convicted for it

Anonymous

#23 2d

i didn’t say it in the original post but i was more so referring to when my kids are full grown adults or at an age where they should legit know better

Anonymous

#3 2d

Do parents actually blame genes for their shitty behavior its 0% bad genes those can be out parented. No one is born a rapist

Anonymous

OP 2d

I don’t think you should have children

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Anonymous 2d

you can’t even spell stfu. rape is 100% worse than lying will ever be but ofc you wouldn’t know that cause you’re a dumbass incel male that won’t ever be able to touch a woman unless you force yourself on them

Anonymous

#23 2d

i don’t think a woman should ever get near you

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OP 2d

What if you shipped me off to war and I flew the Enola Grey and Personally dropped Fat Man on hiroshima killing a quarter milly ppl. Total harm tons of people you wouldn’t love your son the war hero

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#23 2d

legit not even talking about ww2 we’re discussing RAPE. a completely DIFFERENT topic

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OP 2d

Find out what age you will be unable to forgive your child and directly tell them. Also find your boundaries because none of it is B&W

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#23 2d

That's absolutely true, but mental illnesses like Psychopathy are genetic

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mother_russia 2d

Evidence is extremely hard to get. even if you get a kit and it seems as though there was an assault, lawyers and people have found “excuses”

Anonymous

#22 2d

And not only that. Pretty much everyone can find a sexual partner; these people like the power they get and the pain of others. It's absolutely sick

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Anonymous

#24 2d

Oh absolutely! I don’t mean court kind of evidence, I mean like texts or friends accounts or anything. Like if she went in for a rape kit, I would hands down believe her regardless of any results or anything because NOBODY would get one for fun (obviously not every victim gets one, this is just an example)

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mother_russia 2d

Oh okay