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this is a personal confessional: don’t say you’re into younger women and then get upset or icked out when u hear me say things like idk how to cook, i don’t have a 9-5 rn, i still have a curfew, and my parents still takes care of me 💗
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Anonymous 1d

okay but how old are you because that changes things

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Anonymous 1d

no this is so real it makes me mad like boy what are you doing here if u dont want this lifeeee

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Anonymous 1d

LMFAOOO how old are they??? Like 40?

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Anonymous 18h

Your parents love isn’t enough for you you gotta get older men attention ?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

like 18-20 okay maybe, but 21+ you should know how to cook and you should have a job lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

i’m 18

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

my dad refuses to teach me how to cook because he’d rather prepare my meals for me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

alright that’s different, i don’t know what they’re expecting you’re basically still a teenager at that point, you haven’t experienced life yet lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

not in a mean way at all, please soak that up!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

yeah haha it’s rlly annoying. they expect me to have my own house and a 9-5. like dude! ur getting what u signed up for 💔

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Not basically… truly still a teenager

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Also very sweet your dad wants to make your meals for you but if you’re interested in learning he should teach you!! You can also watch shows! My dad and I bonded over Top Chef and Chopped when I was younger :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

ooo nice!! tysm for the suggestion

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Anonymous replying to -> lightbluehater 1d

AHAHAHA maybe like 28-32

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 22h

not really. you’re legally an adult but basically a child.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

Then if he doesn’t teach you teach yourself when he’s gone

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

Oh girl they weird asf

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 21h

overly

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

This is true, legally an adult… eighTEEN also does constitute it still being a teenager… because it ends in “teen”…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

Good lord

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 18h

Oh ew

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17h

yes maybe it ends in teen but you’re not a teen…. you’re an adult lmao. idc what the word ends in, you are an adult regardless.

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Anonymous replying to -> lightbluehater 17h

So now you’re promoting an 18 year old getting w older men when she clearly said her parents support her financially and emotionally? So my comment is ew and not what this kid is doing? Lmao okay

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 17h

first of all. not a kid. secondly, i obviously don’t intentionally and ONLY go after men significantly older than me. a lot of the guys that r closer to my age r typically already taken or are more interested in sleeping around since they’re freshmen in college. and yes my parents love me but im obviously gonna like who i like

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

Bro you are a kid and you’ll see a few years down the road. Yeah go ahead it’s your life 👍

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

Also this is coming from an actual adult, I just worry about younger women. An 18 year old girl looks young and does not have the same life experiences as an older woman. Men who date 17-19 yr olds tend to either like having power over their partner or are very inexperienced in dating. Just be safe and don’t allow to be manipulating, your brain isn’t close to being developed as you think

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 15h

yeah i understand and appreciate the concern. unfortunately the min u turn 18, 65% of the guys that will show u the most attention r much older whether its irl or online. the younger ones r players and the older ones r manipulators so i just try not to take anyone too srsly

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

I am actually sorry you’re experiencing this. I hope a good man comes into your life. But a small piece of advice, have fun when you are young, especially with your friends. Do not worry too much about dating because the right man will just appear. Most people find their husbands nowadays in their late twenties so don’t lose hope with the immaturity of guys your age! Good luck, growing up can be messy but it is usually fun

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 14h

idk i’m starting to find that hard to believe lol bc it seems as though it’s awful no matter the age but ill try to be patient

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

Girlllll remember you are only 18, you have a long time to find a good boyfriend ( a lot of times it won’t work out but you’ll learn from each of them). Sometimes it’s good to join clubs (volunteering, sports, reading), you can maybe find a guy w the same values and interests as you. Also your parents have given you a good model of what love should be like. You’ll be alright ! ❤️

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