not necessarily, humans are collaborative and social creatures and babies take a lot of time/work (it’s why we tend towards pair bonding) like tbh sexual dimorphism is crazy low among humans compared to other great apes (closest comparison is bonobos with gibbons having the lowest)

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Huh?? Naturally, the female in the vast majority of animal species (unless it's the male that creates/births the kid(s) like seahorses) is highly selective. Which is logical. Duh. Humans aggressively tried to defy nature by forcing women to birth and marry w 0 choice until extremely recently. Like women were just allowed to start having their own bank accounts w out their husband controlling it/signing off on it in 1974.

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Anonymous #3 5d

Yes, the pair bonding is super important. That's a part of why selecting a competent mate is so important in our species. I'm not talking physical attractiveness or anything (that's still an element tho). Im talking who would seem like they'd be a great, dependable father/partner. Shared values, high emotional intelligence, empathy, compassion, understanding, handiness, etc.

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Anonymous #1 5d

totally agree! that’s kinda what i’m getting at. people like to point to biology to justify men so domineering but the actual biology tells a totally different story! our nature is to seek long lasting pro-social bonds! beauty and attractiveness is also highly cultural and individualized. it is an aspect, but standards arent super consistent across the board, especially when it comes to men. social compatibility has a way bigger draw

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Anonymous #4 5d

I’ve never seen a woman who didn’t wanna be single stay single for long… can’t say the same about guys

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Anonymous #3 5d

OHH. Yes yes yes!!! Exactly!! Social compatibility is the serious key in mate selection rn, and for some reason men can't understand that at all 😭 they just keep spamming the physical appearance button Like duh y'all are lonely! You don't listen! And so many of them cling to all the fake bs myths they pretend is 'science'

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Anonymous #1 5d

Like if I hear one more guy try to say men are biologically wired to cheat/be poly, imma punch through a window 😭

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Anonymous #4 5d

Lmao the cope is hilarious Y'all don't have wombs so unfortunately the natural selection power card is not in your deck. Y'all got the physical strength superiority power card tho!

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Anonymous #1 5d

i stg 😭 like, i dare these dudes to watch some hear me out videos with the most beautiful girl you’ve ever seen saying she’s down bad for the swamp thing or the number 7

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Anonymous #1 5d

soooo much of that is cultural. like some groups have been doing it 5ever but that’s just how their society works, while for others is absolute anathema. imo the only things were biologically wired for across the board is to be social, communicate, and stimulate our big brains (and that all goes back to be social) outside of that? pretty much all cultural

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Anonymous #3 5d

ya know outside of don’t starve and don’t die, more a comment on “human nature”

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Anonymous #1 5d

You assume im a man?

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Anonymous #4 5d

Based on your post, you're a man 😂 if you aren't biologically male, imma inform you that you're a trans man

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Anonymous #1 5d

So why yall still end up in terrible relationships? Yall don’t seem to be doing a very good job at it

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Anonymous #1 5d

Well your assuming my gender now so your transphobic got it and men deserve love to just because your a rude man hating women doesn’t mean I have to be 💅

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Anonymous #8 5d

It is about dating she’s talking about ugly men

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Anonymous #7 5d

Nah it’s not imo

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Wrong most men are single compared to women dating is easier for women at least attracting a partner is

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Anonymous #8 5d

How i would describe it, while romance is def a factor it’s not the only thing…

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Anonymous #7 5d

We're really the second generation to be able to do this, and in this one the men are red-pilled/conservative. This is new. We're learning 😭 we're making mistakes the next generation will learn from

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Rapist mindset. You a republican sir?

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Anonymous #12 5d

*and also feeling like your worth is attached to finding a partner

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Anonymous #9 5d

I think you are right, but men are a bit more prone to suffer from it due to an expectation to just deal with things on our own. At the end of the day there is no “woe is me” for men, just a broader issue that we are all dealing with and need to work towards improving as a society

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Anonymous #12 5d

I also think part of it is just a social shift. This unfortunately happens when a minority or oppressed group gains ground in some way, there is a moral panic about it, “oH gOD wHaT iF wOMen cOULd vOtE it WouLD alWAYs juST bE thE sEXier cAnDIDate” or “oh NO if BLacK pEOPLe CaN vote ThERE wiLL bE NO ordER” I think we are having one of those moments. Unfortunately many people don’t realize that we are all… uh yk… people

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Anonymous #1 5d

And yet look at how the toxic masculine man is still preferred and the other not as masculine men get isolated for being more sensitive or not happy-go-lucky 24/7. Then they’re part of the lonely men epidemic that you deem as natural selection rebranded. This mindset keeps giving the conservative men a pass and look at the explosion of young Republican and right-leaning guys.

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Anonymous #1 5d

Red-pilled/conservative mind-like men have been running the show since beyond the silent generation.

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What the fuck you rapist, go back to your goon cave and wallow in the fact a woman would never want to be with you

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Anonymous #9 5d

This is true but in general ugly men are more likely to be rejected than ugly women. Not just in dating but in friendship with other men as well. This is no genders fault, just how it is. If you think of it in terms of cave man days. Ugly skinny man useless to both man and woman. Women don’t want to reproduce with him. Men don’t want him bc he is probably bad at hunting or some shit. Serves no purpose. Ugly woman can still produce a child. Women have inherent value. Men do not.

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Anonymous #1 4d

I think humans should only mate with other attractive mates. Too many uglies these days, especially men. So the loneliness rate with men is mostly due to them being ugly. Natural selection overtime will get rid of ugly people naturally thankfully

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Anonymous #17 4d

wtf 😭 you probably chopped as hell

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Anonymous #18 4d

if you took offense to it, it means you’re chopped. Sounds like you’re chopped. Don’t worry buddy, there‘s always the gym that can save you and if not, then I guess you won’t make it passed the great filter 😭

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Anonymous #16 4d

it takes a man an a woman to produce a child genius. what about sexy skinny men? this ones doing alright 😂

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Anonymous #17 4d

no offense taken just thought your opinion was laughable. makes me wonder if you look like Gorlock The Destroyer. i'm certainly no model but i am dating one. also you passed up your past opportunity to spell past correctly, it's past. low intelligence is not a trait most men find attractive, they don't want stupid kids 🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous #18 4d

Haha that one surely passed over their head

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Anonymous #18 4d

Oh I’m sure you’re dating a model, totally I mean if you weren’t you would feel that attacked. I believe you buddy! Just like I believed my high school friend who said he had a girlfriend but we didn’t know her and she went to another school!

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Anonymous #18 4d

Correct but the frequency is different. 1 man can reproduce with 50 women at one time. 50 men cannot reproduce with 1 woman at one time.

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Anonymous #18 4d

Mind you though more women are getting degrees than men these days and growing so I don’t know if young men these days truly look for intelligent women when it’s women these days that are actually looking for intelligent men which are starting to be far a few these days. Oh well, that’s on them

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Anonymous #17 4d

is it so unbelievable that he is sympathetic to ugly men.

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Anonymous #1 4d

The idea that men are biologically hardwired to cheat was popularized by Epstein through his infiltration of academia, particularly evolutionary psychology. He propped up researchers who legitimized his personal beliefs in a field that is highly malleable to biases. And now his beliefs are a pillar of redpill ideology 🫠

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Anonymous #1 4d

https://theoutline.com/post/7956/jeffrey-epstein-evolutionary-psychology

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Anonymous #14 4d

Oh how little you know haha.

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Anonymous #14 4d

I live like a pornstar. My life and the women in it. Is fantastic. You could only wish to be where I am. 🖕😂🖕

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Anonymous #17 4d

What degree are you getting? Business management? Communications? Journalism?

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Anonymous #1 4d

So you think 70% of men are genetically inferior and should die out

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Anonymous #12 4d

never said it’s something to be shrugged off fyi

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Anonymous #4 4d

unfortunately that is not at all what I said or implied… natural disasters are also natural selection for example doesn’t mean they aren’t devastating. Your choice to paint me with bad intent

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Anonymous #12 4d

and who created that expectation? men created this system which promotes toxic masculinity and reinforces the idea men can’t cry, be vulnerable, have close friendships, etc. men suffer its negative consequences while also many of them shit on feminism. feminism aims to deconstruct toxic masculinity and the patriarchy. the patriarchy works for nobody

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Anonymous #11 4d

No bro don’t you know? If you’re a man who isn’t 7’5 with a 20 inch dick, then that’s just natural selection sweetie! 🧚💅

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Anonymous #20 4d

How do y'all just continue blatantly ignore everything we've been saying and overwrite it with your own weird delusions 😭 This isn't about physical appearance. It's about YOU AS A PERSON. Seeming like an attractive husband/father/PARTNER. It's so easy to be like 'All they want is appearance based traits I don't have, oh well, nothing I can do!'; and less easy to be like 'Wait I actually have to work on myself and improve as a person then I can actually pull?'

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Anonymous #1 4d

Im guessing that's why y'all choose to keep your heads in the sand You're scared of actually having to look inwards

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Anonymous #1 4d

Me as a person? I’ve saved many people’s lives, I’ve talked people off the bridge, and rn I’m caring for my disabled mother, as I’ve done for many other disabled or dying elderly family members and family friends, without any complaint or second thoughts. While still working full time and starting up a business all on my own at 21. So explain to me how I’m such a bad person yeah? I wanna know

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You guys are so fixated on material things when that's not at all what we mean. All y'all hear is 'physical appearance' and 'paying for things' We're talking about being a kind, emotionally intelligent, respectful, loyal, compassionate partner. We want what y'all want out of women out of y'all. We all want the same thing.

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That's understandable, and 'bare minimum' shouldn't be used like that, I agree. It's just good in general conversation/discussion to achieve a general 'bare minimum' which should involve respecting, cherishing, and loving your partner. Men are totally allowed to feel wanted! Ofc! There's just a lot of kinks we gotta work out rn and a lot of mixed messaging bc this is really the first time we're all on level playing field when it comes to love/dating. Figuring out we ALL want the same stuff-

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Anonymous #1 4d

Is gonna take ppl some time, unfortunately. Hopefully within another generation or two, guys and girls do equivalent acts of kindness for one another and gender-stereotyped aspects of relationships are simply dissolved

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