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should I just lose my virginity? I’m scared that it will haunt me losing it to “the wrong person” but at the same time I’m ready to do it but I fear that if I do and it’s the wrong person I will never get over it. I’m that type of person😭lol help
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Anonymous 1d

I am too fr, like I think I should just hookup and get it over with. But I also want to wait for at least a girlfriend, because then it should feel more of a connection than just any old hookup u know? As much as it hurts sometimes I think I’ll wait

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Anonymous 1d

I wouldn’t, the first time is always disappointing. Let it be with someone you love at least

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Anonymous 22h

You needn’t rush.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

okay I think I just have high hopes for my first lowkey🥲

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

That’s exactly how I feel!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

You two should fuck then

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Like it’s an annoying feeling. But I’ve also kept telling myself no I gotta wait, so I think if I hooked up with someone that would hurt me mentally more, cause I’d be breaking my promise to myself u know?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Exactly that’s what I FEEEL I was like if I just did it I’d also feel like I broke the promise to myself to give it to someone special

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Yeah I know right? But I made this promise to myself so that’s what I get it. So like r we gonna get to know each other and see what happens lol, I know #1 does

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

omg so like i was in the exact same boat as u (21F, i’m hot/rich/smart/social & always thought id wait for my bf but i just… never ended up seriously dating a guy & i was v nervous). last week I met this guy at a party, and just clicked, like instant chemistry. we saw each other again the next night and went on a little datey type thing & then he came over to my place & it was honestly like… SO much fun? i was shocked.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

we’re not dating which is kinda 🙃 bc i LIKE dates LOL & so i wonder if i should have made him wait longer bc i am such a dating girl, but i had such a fun time & we’ve seen each other again since then already! so, maybe this is your sign!!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

lol we definitely could yeah

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

like, perhaps it doesn’t have to be nameless evil hookup or long term bf. and it CAN be very fun your first time!

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