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i always get the feeling that since i'm a gay trans man or color, i'll never be loved. especially because every guy i loved was cis. i feel like no one really likes trans men and just want to fetishize them. anyone else feel like this too?
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Anonymous 2w

I get it yeah :( I’ve also only dated cis guys bc there are no trans men around me. There are some good ones out there, but honestly the only thing that helped me with the waiting is eliminating my need for a relationship, mainly just by having close friendships and being physically affectionate with some friends. Their existence also helps me believe good people are out there for me :]

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Anonymous 2w

Damn you really chose life on Legendary

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Anonymous 2w

From what I’ve seen, it seems more common for trans guys to do t4t, you could date someone who relates more to your experiences that way too

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I’m nonbinary so while I can’t relate exactly, I know what you mean about the fetishization stuff

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

yeahhh i suppose

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

yeah true, it'll be ok for us both in the end 🖤

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