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My parents never let me go out anywhere. All I do is stay home every day, and I’m miserable 🫩.
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Anonymous 1w

Is there a thing u wanna do though? What’s stopping you

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Anonymous 1w

I’m sorry dm me ?

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Anonymous 1w

You could change that stop complaining

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I’m afraid of going out by myself because i never have before.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Ok fair….. I have and it still makes me anxious

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Yeah but i’m sure you have friends you can go with and stuff right? ☹️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Not really mostly recluse

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Oh i’m sorry ☹️☹️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Don’t be I’m comfortable in silence and solitude. Most people can’t be. I enjoy going out solo and having time with me. When I do hang w someone they are special and significant in my life

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I really can’t. I don’t drive, and I don’t know how to be anywhere by myself because I’ve never had to. I feel afraid and anxious about trying. I also don’t have any friends who are willing to go out with me to help me feel more confident and comfortable most of my friends are long-distance. If I could just leave and go on my own, I would, but it’s hard because I never learned how to function or be anywhere alone. I’ve always had my parents, and I also live in a place where it can be dangerous.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Ignoring ignorance is peace…. He won’t get it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Well, that’s good that you do. When you go out alone, is it not scary? Don’t you get afraid of people staring, or worry that they might do something to you or follow you?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Learn how to drive stop being lazy, you sound like a 12 year old kid

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Baby steps to be honest. I love good fancy food so I started w that. Went and found restaurants I wanted to experience sat at the bar or solo tables and just took it all in… pretended I was a food critic a few times lol had fun and worked my way up. Def nervous at first, hella anxious but over time I worked around it through doing it again and making a game out of n stuff

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

lol u don’t get laid ever do u… get off on putting others down but honestly have no life, zero game and haven’t accomplished shit in ur existence…. Simp

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I might have the mind of one because of how I was raised, and I can’t help that very well but i try. I also can’t drive because nobody in my family drives, so I couldn’t get my learner’s permit. I was homeschooled, so I didn’t take driver’s ed, and I can’t afford a car. Even my parents don’t drive.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Ignore this MAGOT

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I know I should I just want people to get a better understanding of things, so I explain it even if they aren’t nice 😅

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Ooh, okay, that makes sense and sounds nice. I hope that sometime soon I can get the courage to try and do that as well, but I’m nervous about what could happen to me.

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