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Confessions 21h
I wanna have sex like I don’t wanna be a virgin anymore but I also really don’t wanna lose it in a hookup and men don’t date anymore they all just wanna hookup like do I just do it? I need to hear other peoples story about how they lost it
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Anonymous 21h

Save it until you’re sure he’s the one

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Anonymous 21h

Just wait until you get in a relationship

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Anonymous 21h

ngl i was the same and lost it to a fwb, wasn’t bad

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Anonymous 21h

Just let whoever interested know your waiting to marriage and it’s no gray area, a lot of dudes will respect, and the attractiveness they have for will increase

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Anonymous 19h

Im a dude in a similar boat. Though I am not keen on losing my virginity and think most girls don’t deserve to take it. However I’m also not looking so IG that’s different

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Anonymous 18h

I was drunk and we didn’t talk about it before and a lowkey don’t remember loosing it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

Real

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 21h

I can’t get into relationships idk why everytime I try and guys just wanna have sex and when u say im not ready to have sex or not into hooking up they leave AND date someone else so I’m like cursed I should just give in

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 20h

Oh no telling men I’m not ready is already been effective I can’t say I’m waiting for marriage I’m gonna like due a virgin at that point

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

It’s different on how guys view being with virgin vs girls , most guys want a girl that they know not everyone been with it, most guys will be even more attracted at that point . You’re aren’t missing much by waiting don’t let fomo trick you into doing something rushed and then you meet the right guy and regret that you didn’t wait so it could be special

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 20h

Waiting for marriage and telling the guy upfront you’re waiting for marriage will help more than hurt, and it will save you a lot of heart break

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