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respectfully broke it off with the guy i was talking to instead of ghosting #adulting #effectivecommunication
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Anonymous 12w

Very cool and mature of you to do that

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Anonymous 12w

proud of u girl

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Anonymous 12w

Wish the guy who ghosted me could take notes

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Anonymous 12w

wish i had gotten that courtesy wtf

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Anonymous 12w

got ghosted by a girl and im about ready to smash my head into a wall

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Anonymous 12w

I need you in my life tired of emotional immature girls

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Anonymous 12w

YES GIRL I AM SO PROUD OF YOU

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Anonymous 12w

idk i find that ghosting is only acceptable if the person ur talking to doesnā€™t take no for an answer and keeps trying to pursue

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Anonymous 12w

You are very rare and have my utmost respect

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Anonymous 12w

queen

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Anonymous 12w

Good shit

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Anonymous 12w

The bare minimum

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Anonymous 12w

As a guy that recently got ghosted, I appreciate you and your actions OP. What did you say if you donā€™t mind sharing?

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Anonymous 12w

we Stan a person who can actually grow some balls and tell the other person šŸ˜€

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Anonymous 12w

No ghost is the way to go

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Anonymous 12w

You are thanked greatly for being an actual adult and not just ghostingā€¦then bumping into that person about 5 times in public. (Itā€™s me, he bumped into me 5 times and then went to hide)

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Anonymous 12w

need to do this before i get overly attached

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Anonymous 12w

Sounds uncomfortable #betterthanme

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Anonymous 12w

nah iā€™m sorry but if weā€™re just casually talking sometimes no answer is an answer

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Anonymous 12w

I wish

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Anonymous 12w

So were congratulating people for doing the bare minimum? Yeah no wonder America is fucked

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12w

thank you šŸ„²

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 12w

the amt of times iā€™ve been ghosted you would think it is

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 12w

hey iā€™ve been thinking and i want to just focus on school right now to make sure i can get where i need to be. i donā€™t want to continue this because itā€™s not fair to either of us. we havenā€™t been able to have a full conversation in a long time and i think you deserve better than that. i have truly enjoyed getting to know you so donā€™t think you did anything wrong. iā€™m sorry for bringing this up out of the blue

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Wow! That was well put together. Very good communication I applaud you for that OP. Thanks for sharing with us šŸ™šŸ½

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

šŸ«¶

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

YES GIRL

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 12w

I hope you do it soon girl

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12w

me too but itā€™s hard. college boys r no joke

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 12w

donā€™t even worry it literally took me like 2 weeks to build the courage to do it

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 12w

thatā€™s hilarious and sad bc why ghost if you know youā€™ll see that person in public iā€™m embarrassed for you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Bro was not the sharpest. Thought weā€™d never run into each other at our fucking university events

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 12w

šŸ‘Ž

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 12w

Thereā€™s a time and a place for it. Esp if youā€™re in an abusive/manipulative relationship, thatā€™s all you can do.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 12w

For you, not for OP

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 12w

it had been like 3 months lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #26 12w

Its hard for a lot of people to do this so we give praise when we can Would you have ghosted or broke it off in a more respectful manner? You have to be honest with yourself

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 12w

Yeah no lmao I was raised right šŸ«µšŸ˜‚ Imagine having a hard time being a decent human being, could not be me sorry šŸ¤·šŸ½ā€ā™‚ļø

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Anonymous replying to -> #26 12w

I think its moreso that you think you were raised right and now you think you are better than everyone else (as shown with both of your comments)

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