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Confessions 15w
This was like the smallest reason but one reason why I had to stop talking to this white boy I was dating is because he said he would need help putting sunscreen on his back in the summer and I literally just am not fucking doing that lmao
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Anonymous 15w

I’m genuinely confused by this. Why not?

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Anonymous 15w

every skin color should be applying sunscreen. the darkest melanin only has an spf of 12

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Anonymous 15w

LMAOOO girl this is so real

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Anonymous 15w

I’m white and have been severely sunburnt numerous times and I refuse to wear sunscreen for my entire life and I’m planning on dying of a preventable illness like skin cancer

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

Sure in theory everyone should. In reality white people have a 30x higher chance of developing melanoma and most Black ppl don't wear sunscreen ever lol. No one in my family has ever been sunburnt. I'm doing fine

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Anonymous replying to -> jesusfreak_ 15w

Because I don't want to?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

But I’m assuming you’re dating somebody you’re in love with (just trying to understand the situation, please correct me if I’m wrong) wouldn’t want to do the little things like that to help him out?

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Anonymous replying to -> jesusfreak_ 15w

I'm not suddenly in love with someone just because we started going on dates lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

But you at least care about the person, would you not want to help?

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Anonymous replying to -> jesusfreak_ 15w

Clearly I don't care enough lol we don't talk anymore

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Anonymous replying to -> jesusfreak_ 15w

There’s obviously other reasons at play and the sunscreen is probably irrelevant

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

Yeah but I’m talking about when you were dating

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Anonymous replying to -> jesusfreak_ 15w

What does dating mean to you?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

Me personally? Because of my beliefs and values I don’t date someone just to date someone, I’m dating someone to marry them. So little stuff like this matters, because I’m looking to spend my life with my current partner.

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Anonymous replying to -> jesusfreak_ 15w

I mean sure but this mindset works if you only date people you already know lol I can be dating with the mindset of finding the person I'll marry but I still have to find them first. The first part of dating is getting to know the person and deciding if you would want something long term with them specifically. if I wouldn't even wanna help you put on sunscreen, clearly I don't like you that much. Hence us no longer dating

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

Gotcha, that makes sense

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 15w

wow what a trooper, can i slap the back of your neck next time the sun graces your skin

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