
Guy I lost my virginity to tried to talk me into letting him not use a condom. He was like “I have unprotected sex all the time and I’ve never had any diseases” okay so unless you got tested after EVERY ONE OF THOSE HOOKUPS, all that tells me is that you could have multiple diseases and have no idea.
Same guy also tried to insist he wouldn’t get me pregnant because I’m on testosterone (I’m trans) and I was like no actually, you can still get pregnant on T. And he kept saying “Are you sure? I’m pretty sure you can’t.” And I was like. Hey bud. Which one of us has been on this medication for 5 years and had multiple talks with professional endocrinologists about how it affects my body and fertility?