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Confessions 35w
I like splitting the bill on dates not because I hate the person I’m dating but because I actually feel terrible when people try to pay for everything for me
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Anonymous 35w

I wish it were normalized tbh! A lot of people hate on me for this and it’s really disappointing because it feels so much healthier than always expecting things to be given to me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 35w

Like there are other ways someone can show me that they’re attracted to me besides refusing to let me pay for my own food, it comes across as somewhat controlling too

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