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the girl who bullied me all throughout middle school and high school is pretty now and has a boyfriend, and things are going good in her life. I hate it.
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Anonymous 3d

Sorry OP, but the only way you’ll be happy is if you stop surveilling her life and pour into your own. Her life probably ain’t perf as it seems on the outside cause no one’s is

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Anonymous 3d

Have you thought about living your own life unbothered and with respect to the fact you don’t have to compare yourself to everyone? I heard it helps.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

omg have u ever thought that if you were shitty to people growing up they just dont forget about it?? and the same sick condescending tone jesus fucking christ. you were and are still a mean girl, hope that helps

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Anonymous 3d

u being a magahead makes sense lmfao

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Anonymous 3d

ew filthy liberal worse than a republican at least republicans stand on their shit. im a leftist no wonder ur dumb

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

You just suck, you have to much care for other ppl who don’t even care abt you, da you’re causing stress for yourself for no reason and just holding in hate because you can’t get over someone who doesn’t care.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

u just suck ur so annoyed by my opinions u keep replying sybau

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Anonymous 3d

youre worse than insincere hoe

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

Ppl have been mean to me my whole life dude, I grew up fat as shit and yk shit didn’t change for me till I stopped focusing on other people and started focusing on myself, also I’m a guy. Also ppl like that do feel bad, maybe not now but eventually.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

not always sometimes they become worse people

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Anonymous 3d

im his favorite daughter tbh we have dinner planned tomorrow

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

ur immature, hope this helps

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

Ok so they suck, shits not fair, but you can’t stop caring anytime you want too,

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

im allowed to still be mad at certain people and hold anger towards them and still have a fulfilling life, i dont understand why you think me not wanting to forgive people means im stuck in life, i just dont care to forget or forgive its not like i spend everyday thinking about it but if i saw them today we arent friends, im mature enough to be polite but thats as far ill go

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

Because that’s just as bad if not worse, you’re entitled to your victim mentality and you holding in negative emotions isn’t going to fix you or your problems, you’re upset that their life is going good and yours is not, have you considered that maybe how you act (as in being immature) has impacted the way others perceive you? Not trying to be a dick but you just seem super toxic and immature which is a huge red flag for me personally.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

Forgive and forget is a powerful lesson everyone should learn, spite isn’t going to do you any good.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

im not the one who posted this so i actually didnt say anything about not wanting the best for people. all that i said is that i can understand the sentiment of still not liking people from the past thats all. you came in with that weird hope this helps bullshit which is rude af so its ironic that youre calling anyone immature when you sound like a 19 year old wokester who just learned the phrase for the first time. hope that helps!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

forgive and forget is enabler bullshit

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

Sorry I’m tired didn’t realize you weren’t op, but it is the truth

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

It’s not tho, there’s obv lines, but shit if your holding on to negative emotions over some petty bs just fucking leave it alone stop being a bitch.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

okay u need to relax. ur out here calling me the immature one but u just called me a BITCH for having an opinion and u claim youre not a bully? what the fuck is wrong with you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

Sorry for calling you a bitch, but you lwk sound like a bitch, I never claimed anything other than I got shit on hard for being fat, but I’m not fat anymore. Because I fucking left petty shit in the past. Also calling me a bully is a little ridiculous, hard ass sure, prick maybe, but dude you can stop caring just turn your phone off. 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

I do actually, I know it may not come off from my post but I do live my life pretty unbothered and don't compare myself. I'm not comparing myself to her. I'm also hot and have an amazing boyfriend, so it's not really a comparison thing. I just hate that bad people always tend to get a lot of good stuff and never get their karma lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Life sucks bru, glad you feel confident and proud of yourself, I do believe karma is real tho, but I don’t think it comes In the way anyone can understand, If that makes any difference.

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Anonymous 3d

Gaf fn ✅

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

Idk I think it depends. You say "petty bs" but you don't really know what that person put them through. Personally, this girl made me almost kill myself. I was going through a lot at home (which she knew) and then made my life a living hell in school. I've forgiven her, not really forgotten though

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Anonymous 3d

I know it is, I never said I was comparing myself though lol. You created that scenerio. I just said I hate that she's got all that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Everyone deals with shit, I was dealing with much more than just being “fat”, your experience is not unique, it’s how you handle it, good you’ve forgiven tho.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

Yeah, I get that. I mean hey I wish her the best but at the same time I hope karma gets her eventually. It's a bit of a confusing feeling I can't lie

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

It’s called being spiteful, but knowing you shouldn’t be, which dude. Real asf. But you gotta know what it is.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

Exactly, a lot of people go through shit that people don't know about. I do think that going through shit is not an excuse to be a pos though. I know my experience is not unique. I've grown a lot of a person too since I left high school, and yes I have forgiven her. I'm still human at the end of the day and sometimes I might feel slightly resentful when I see someone who made me almost commit have so much

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

Yeah, I know. I've forgiven her and grown as a person, and then sometimes when I see her or see her post I get this feeling of resentment inside of me that I thought I left behind. It's a work in progress I guess

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Good for you dude, you’re a human it’s ok to feel mixed. Pet peeve tho saying someone else is the reason for you to commit, sounds very victim. Sorry for the downplay it’s just a pet peeve.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

DA, unfollow her. Don’t put yourself in a situation you don’t have to be in.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

I get that. I mean they weren't the only reason but definitely added to it

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