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I hate being nonbinary I wish I never learned what trans or nonbinary was because maybe if I just stayed a woman and kept feeling like something was wrong with me, I’d be slightly less lonely and feeling like an outcast than I am now
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Anonymous 1d

I know in my heart I’m a nonbinary person but I just can’t stand the loneliness, I can’t stand feeling like I’ll never find true friends in real life or a partner who loves and accepts me for who I truly am

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Anonymous 1d

If I were born as a conventionally attractive naturally 10/10 stick thin neurotypical white girl my life would be so much different even now

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Anonymous 1d

Knowing I only have one life and I can’t just kill myself and start over as someone people will accept and care about ruins my life

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I think you just haven’t found your people yet. I have nonbinary friends who have found very strong social circles.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I’d like to think that’s the case but it’s been so long I’m just losing hope. Idk what size cities they’re in but I’m in a moderately small college town and it just feels depressing here, I know bigger cities are better for people like me but I just can’t afford them

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

We are in a mid-sized college town.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I know things seem hard but especially early on it can be hard finding your people. But there’s communities out there and I’m sure you will find one

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