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how the fuck do guys not know what to do with the clit. is it not just a mini dick. like arent you guys supposed to be the experts here
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Anonymous 3w

Bc no one teaches them and shames them for not knowing, thus discouraging asking questions. Plus everyone likes something different, so it’s your job to tell them what you like if you want to receive it

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Anonymous 3w

Can we stop talking about sex like it’s a universal experience? Just communicate what you like to people and stop expecting to be paired with literal mind readers. I’ve personally been with multiple women that have liked wildly different things in bed. Even when it came to particularly clitoral stim. Just talk to your partners ffs

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Anonymous 3w

Dm me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

amateur porn is free btw. and if your partner shames you for asking questions youre with the wrong person

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Hey we should not be encouraging men to replicate porn as good sex, haven’t we been telling them that real sex isn’t like porn for literal years 😭 just say you’re a lazy partner that’s fine

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Also you’re actively shaming people for asking questions by telling them they should already know

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Amateur porn, as in real people. 😅 Not actors babes.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Also it was a damn joke (and kind of guidance in a way. it really is just like a mini dick). Dont brush your insecurities onto me lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Firstly im a woman, no need to be insecure about my munch game. However, I think we should be encouraging men to learn from their partners and women to be willing to speak up for what they want from theirs. Not just shoving it off to “google it”. Your partner may not like what the hoes on Pornhub like. Ask THEM. and if you’re a woman not liking what you’re getting TELL THEM what to change

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

i never.. ? dude. 💀 youre under the assumption that i dont do that. the thing about joking is that you dont have to be serious. i have a wonderful partner and im better at communicating with my partner than probably 70% of people are. what would you have not learned about your body without googling about it btw? cause i KNOW sex ed's lacking

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I’m not necessarily calling you out, I’m just in general shutting down the narrative that it’s men’s fault they don’t know what to do when women also need to speak up too (and that porn is a good place to learn how to be good at sex lol)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Okay. right. So, i get what youre saying, but at the same time, theres NO way this is consequential enough to make a man shrivel in fear... and if it is, he probably isnt in the right place to be sleeping with someone. 🤷 Pick your battles. Just to be clear. "Amateur porn," as in real life people, CAN be helpful to learn from. I did not specify actor porn. Dually, the statement "it's like a mini dick" should decrease fear and make a couple brains click, if not balance the narrative.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I’m not going to watch porn, bro. 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

okay then don't damn 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> nuclearburrito 1w

sorry didnt see your reply. yes, dont worry, i communicate very well and my experiences with my partner perfectly fine, i was just making a joke lol.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

now if i could speak with proper grammar, that'd be even better

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