Confessions on Sidechat | I made out with my girl best friend while lowkey drunk(she was sober mind you and iniated it) i’m very conflicted right now i liked it but also uncomfortable but also don’t know how to tell my bf or if i even should

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Confessions 1d

I made out with my girl best friend while lowkey drunk(she was sober mind you and iniated it) i’m very conflicted right now i liked it but also uncomfortable but also don’t know how to tell my bf or if i even should

Anonymous 1d

Tbh this is very complicated situation i think more context is needed, anyway imo you should tell him bc if it were him you’d wanna know. Expect that he will be upset and maybe need space etc

Anonymous 1d

you def should tell him. and def stop talking too her if she was sober and initiated it

Anonymous 1d

You should tell him, but it’s not a good outcome any self respecting guy would break up with you after.

Anonymous 1d

You need to tell him, if you keep something from your partner whatever trust he had will be compromised and questioned. You didn’t consent to the action since you were drunk, and even if sober you still wouldn’t

Anonymous 1d

Don’t tell him

Anonymous

#2 1d

“Any self respecting guy”Mind you I was drunk not in my right mind and would NEVER do that sober and have NEVER done anything like that before but okay

Anonymous

OP 1d

Look I’m saying this as a person who has cheated before and never said anything, any amount of cheating is cheating. And you let her kiss you regardless of whether you were in your right mind or not. Being drunk is not an excuse for bad behavior. Shouldn’t have gotten drunk then. You can choose whether to tell him or not, but realistically any self respecting guy should break up with their girlfriend if they heard about this.

Anonymous

#1 1d

Why?

Anonymous

#3 1d

He will probably make it sexual in a weird way

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Anonymous

#1 1d

What?? Elaborate

Anonymous

#2 1d

Buddy inebriated individuals can’t consent, and she said she wouldn’t have consented even if sober

Anonymous

#3 1d

She said she liked it🫩

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Anonymous

#2 1d

You think an assault victim’s situation disappears from “liking it”?

Anonymous

#3 1d

Assault victim is crazy work, she may not have been able to give consent and that does warrant it’s own thinking and problem, however being drunk is not an excuse for making out with another person when you’re in a committed relationship, she again said she liked it.

Anonymous

#2 1d

Give this a read. https://utulsa.edu/student-life/sexual-violence-prevention-education/alcohol-consent/

Anonymous

#3 1d

My point is if my girlfriend got drunk and kissed another girl and said she liked it I would break up with her no question

Anonymous

#2 1d

And since you’re ignoring the fact she can’t lawfully or ethically consent, that’s the reason you don’t have one.

Anonymous

#3 1d

Nice guess, but you’re very wrong my girlfriend just wouldn’t do that

Anonymous

#2 1d

Imaginary girlfriends don’t count

Anonymous

#3 1d

Whatever twin, I’ve stated my opinion I don’t have anything else to say

Anonymous

#2 1d

Alright man let’s hope you don’t get mad at another assault victim lmao

Anonymous

#2 1d

bro if you can't consent then you have been assaulted. what do you think sexual assault is?

Anonymous

#6 1d

I’m not arguing about the sexual assault, I’m saying that she liked it and was still an accomplice regardless of being drunk, so I would personally break up with her

Anonymous

#2 1d

Question: if an sa victim said they “liked it”, but did not give consent and was forced, are they to blame?

Anonymous

#3 1d

Pretty sure OP didn’t say she was forced at all, also of course she’s not the one to blame in SA, she is however held accountable for the action she took when she was drunk,

Anonymous

#2 12h

If you don’t consent to an action, you’re forced into it. Bottom line. Inebriated people can’t account for consent when they’re not mentally fit to say so. Just say you like assaulting drunk women bro