I don’t always enjoy the mess of sex. & my bf is big, so taking his size can be a lot for me at times. I have sexual trauma so painful sex can be a trigger for me & it just takes a toll on me physically & mentally. But it’s only sometimes.
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AnonymousOP20h
oh yeah that makes a lot of sense, my ex had some trauma and i was always slow and gentle, i value the connection over doing things rough, sorry don’t hate me