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If you ever feel the need to manipulate someone you’re dating to “test” them that’s a sign you either shouldn’t be with THEM or you’re not ready to be in a relationship
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Anonymous 4d

Manipulate in what kind of way?

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Anonymous 4d

yes testing is not kind and means there’s not trust built yet. you shouldn’t be with them if you haven’t built trust yet.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

Lying, tricking them, starting unnecessary fights. Not talking about playful stuff, white lies, or withholding vulnerable info for safety reasons but doing things or putting them in situations to get a reaction from them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

And it’s a GREAT way to destroy trust for the person you’re testing

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