Anonymous #3 12h

Wrong.

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Anonymous #3 12h

That’s not how the legal system views it all. Dads constantly get screwed over

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Anonymous #2 12h

Dads get financially abused and forced to make things work with a fear of losing half their paycheck and freedom. It’s actually insane

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Anonymous OP 12h

Yea we need some amendments to family court for sure

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Anonymous #2 12h

I’m a woman and it hurt me every time I see a women prioritizing men over their children. Just sickening

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Anonymous OP 12h

so you think the woman has more responsibility as a parent?

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Anonymous OP 12h

okay but how is a dead beat mom worse than a dead beat dad? that implies that a woman naturally should have more parental responsibility placed on her? which is the same kinda inequality that can permeate into the legal system

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Anonymous #3 12h

Do they not?

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Anonymous OP 11h

why would they? the mother and father both have equal responsibility over the child they made together. this notion that women have more responsibility has contributed to continuing gender inequality.

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Anonymous OP 11h

shaming women more for something than men is called a fuckin double standard btw !!

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Anonymous #3 11h

Women live life’s based on double standards and only speak out when it goes against them

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Anonymous OP 11h

and you’re saying this as a woman?

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Anonymous OP 11h

so for the record you’re for double standards ? or against. you’re not making a lot of strong stances here nor backing them up.

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Anonymous #1 11h

“hill im willing to die on” but they aren’t even explaining their stance at all 💀

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Anonymous #3 11h

Yes I’m saying it as a woman. It’s insane

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Anonymous #3 11h

I’m a woman, what do you expect me to do? Provide evidence for anything?

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Anonymous OP 10h

you gotta be trolling. idc what gender you are, if you’re gonna make a claim back it up pussy

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Anonymous #3 10h

lol someone’s mad. Deadbeat mom yourself?

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Anonymous OP 10h

not mad just tryna challenge you. i’m not a parent. i just don’t support what you’re saying and am trying to understand your viewpoint more

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Anonymous OP 10h

what i’m not getting is why the mother inherently has more responsibility to be a parent than the father does

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Anonymous #1 10h

Do you understand nature?

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Anonymous OP 10h

its 2026. human nature is influenced by socialization of societies.

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Anonymous OP 10h

oh brotherrrrr

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Anonymous #1 10h

I take it you don’t? The world is feminine in nature. We hold the keys to growth and discovery. It’s as simple as that

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Anonymous OP 9h

but even if you wanna do the gender essentialism stuff men have the responsibility to provide and protect why is their responsibility to do that less important?

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Anonymous OP 9h

nature doesn’t have gender.

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Anonymous #3 9h

Jesus Christ, how far have we came as a society to start saying stupid shit like this

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Anonymous OP 9h

gender is a social construct created by humans, firstly. why don’t you just say what you really believe? that you think women deserve more shame for neglecting their role as parents because you don’t view men and women’s role as such to be equal. you’re against gender equality.

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Anonymous OP 9h

that’s just a term created back when there were prehistoric fertility cults and creation myths. women have more to do with the creation of offspring, but that doesn’t mean the majority of parental responsibility should be on them. this kinda rhetoric is why there are so many dead beat dads, and shitty trad dads who don’t connect with their kids bc they think it’s the woman’s job. we have progressed as a society, we aren’t primitive animals.

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Anonymous OP 9h

sex and gender are different things luv

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Anonymous #1 9h

Blah blah blah

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Anonymous #3 9h

Zzzzzzzzzz

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Anonymous #3 9h

Women give life, not men. It’s biological

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Anonymous OP 9h

women give birth, there’s no denying the sacrifice and miracle of that. we live in a society where both parents need to be involved and held equally responsible tho

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Anonymous #3 9h

If it’s a women’s choice to terminate the life before birth, it’s not equal.

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Anonymous OP 9h

youre right. woman’s decision there. doesn’t change my argument. men should be held equally accountable for abandonment of their children.

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Anonymous #3 9h

Are you dense?

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Anonymous OP 9h

are you?? you can’t support an argument for shit.

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Anonymous #3 9h

I am pretty dense, a solid 140.

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