Anonymous OP 16h

Lmao updated please

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Anonymous #3 15h

Same

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Anonymous #5 15h

NOTHING THATS WHY IM SO FUCKING MAD 😭 we deadass have been dating for three days like where did this shit even come from

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Anonymous OP 15h

i need an update

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Anonymous #3 15h

dw i’ll update 😭 i think the only chance id stay with him is if he has a damn good explanation because im not gonna just sit around and wait for him to hurt me wtf

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Anonymous #2 15h

girl leave his ass like this is actually insane

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Anonymous OP 15h

Okg did he respond yet??

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It’s an American psycho meme. Not meant to be taken literally. It could also be something he reflects on from a previous relationship or just something he can understand while not directly relating to. Sure there’s a possible chance he can be experiencing this currently, but do u really think a guy who (for example) is cheating on his gf is gonna repost a meme about cheating on his gf? If it was real why would he repost fr?

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And tbh, if it was real, this seems more like a depressing thing to experience rather than a my gf sucks meme. This seems like someone being sad they can’t just be happy no matter what route they choose, in that case it sounds more like mental illness rather than someone being a shitty bf. “Ohh let’s break up with the guy reposting about his depression hahaha fuck that guy !”

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It’s not weird to scroll on social media and be reminded of a past experience via a meme. And yes, I have faith in people, because I’m an adult who cares and wants the best for everyone involved. Anyway, OP, I think this is just a conversation worth having rather than jumping to a conclusion .

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Anonymous beestboy 14h

Cmon now you gotta have some basic common sense or basic human decency. Reposting that right after you start dating someone? Bruh. If it wasn't targeted/purposeful, he lacks common sense and decency. Maybe intellect. You've gotta understand how your actions can affect others and be mindful.

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Anonymous #7 14h

If ur scrollling and reposting stupid memes you’re not gonna think “how is this gonna hurt my gf” you’re gonna laugh , repost, and go about your day. Most dudes do not care nor do they think someone is going through their reposts lmaoo

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Anonymous #7 14h

Anytime my girl sends me a stupid meme asking me what I mean or why is this funny I look at her like she’s stupid cuz wtf r u talking about Instagram for in real life who cares about that ?

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Anonymous beestboy 14h

Stop lying we know you don’t have a girl with that garbage attitude 😂

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Or maybe you’re overreacting to a joke 🤷🏻🤷🏻 I never send reposts to my shawties cuz I don’t care it doesn’t bother me cuz I live in reality.

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Anonymous beestboy 14h

There's a major difference between reposting silly memes in a relationship, and reposting something that pm says 'I hate the person I just started engaging with and I really wanna fuck other women' a few days into a brand new relationship 😭 like cmon now. This one doesn't even require much media literacy or critical thinking.

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Anonymous beestboy 14h

If you don't care about your 'shawties' feelings, and them as human beings, you may be gay or have ASPD 👍

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Anonymous #7 14h

Ahhh yes , the homosexuality gambit ,always efficient in arguments online ;)

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Anonymous #14 14h

no 😒 he works nights so he sleeps all day

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Anonymous beestboy 14h

it was on MY fyp you stupid bitch. you slow as fuck just like him weirdo

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Anonymous OP 14h

He also commented on another post that said “getting hoes pregnant and blocking them is my favorite past time” and he put real asf. I don’t think this is the best person to be listening to😭

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Anonymous beestboy 14h

this is such a selfish and ignorant perspective im so weak 😭 all of that is outs when it comes down to the fact that he didnt have to repost it. What the fuck else do you gain from reposting something other than the fact that you want people other than yourself to see it?

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Anonymous #17 14h

Lmaoooooo u wouldn’t get it

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Anonymous beestboy 14h

this is called being inconsiderate and extremely childish. You people dont need to be in relationships if you cant give a fuck about someone other than yourself.

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Anonymous OP 14h

I repost things cuz they’re funny and I like my friends seeing what I’m laughing at so we can laugh together. I wouldn’t think my gf who I just cuffed would take it seriously cuz clearly it’s joke

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Anonymous #20 14h

nothing that would prompt this 😭 he hasnt dated anyone in six months and he isnt talking to anybody else right now so im really just in the dark here

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Anonymous OP 14h

I guess bro

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Anonymous beestboy 14h

nothing about this even insinuates that its a joke. Get your head out of your ass and think critically for once in your life.

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Anonymous beestboy 14h

thats what i thought

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Anonymous OP 14h

well what did he say about his exes

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Anonymous OP 14h

I mean like I said earlier if it’s not a joke then it’s something else that deserves pity, not to be shamed for. Your route seems like shaming and attacking rather than understanding. Either way, you’re cooked. You want people to feel empathy for you but u can hold empathy for them and their struggles (or humor)

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Anonymous #20 14h

hes had alot of off and on but thats pretty much it

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Anonymous OP 14h

Like I said earlier, u should just talk to them And try to hold another thought in ur head that isn’t just ur singular way of thinking which is “im a victim , surely he did this to harm me!”

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Anonymous #23 14h

I run into your experiences too. It is a paradox. All my guy friends vanished because I do lot subscribe to the bro culture. I just have female friends and I develop strong bonds with them but as friends. Any guy they are with, the bonding doesn’t happen. I am closer to them than their boyfriends.

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Anonymous OP 14h

That’s the clue honey

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Anonymous beestboy 14h

If you took one second to read the singular message i sent him you’ll see that i didnt attack him at all and i never have. The fact that you truly believe hes the one that needs to be pitied in this situation is both extremely laughable and concerning about the fact that your vote counts the same as mine.

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Anonymous beestboy 14h

All i wanted was an explanation and honestly the more you keep running your mouth the more i just want to leave his childish ass.

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Anonymous OP 13h

I ain’t reading ts lmaoooo I am going off ur post and that’s it . Feel free to breakup with him tho he probably found enough cons about u anyway including ur lack of humor #redflag

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Anonymous OP 13h

UPDATE‼️: he said it was an accident… 🧍🏾‍♀️call me stubborn but i really dont buy that shit

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Anonymous #23 13h

Wait say more about the pleasure thing this is rlly interesting

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Anonymous #27 13h

R u a man or a woman just curious

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Anonymous #27 13h

That's an issue with dopamine-chasing, impulse-control, and comparison. Anyone that does this needs to work on being present/mindful, and get the dopamine-chase under control. I'm getting the same vibe as someone with BED who's already fantasizing about what else they can eat/what they're gonna blindly binge next while still being in the middle of their current food. No matter how amazing that food is.

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Anonymous OP 13h

there’s MUCH better out there 💀 that’s wild omg

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Anonymous #14 13h

Man

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Anonymous #7 13h

Correct. Dopamine is a helluva drug!

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Anonymous #14 13h

You want things right and fair and that conflicts with his pleasure. Pleasure is to basically feed and consume without thinking about the other person. At best it’s two people sharing the same drug but only care about the drug, at worst it’s a vampire feeding off someone. Him being with you is an internal struggle of pleasure and what is right. A real relationship is much more than sharing some drug or feeding like a vampire. This is the struggle they have because they know what is right.

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Anonymous beestboy 13h

Ngl as a guy who always reposts dumb/wild shit on tiktok, it gets to a point where yk when to stop. This vid that’s reposted is not funny at all 💀 there’s nothing humorous about it, it’s just hate/real thoughts. If anything you’re the red flag here

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Anonymous beestboy 13h

Also icl I always see your dumbass comment on random posts and they’re literally always low iq shit. I really hate to diss others but you need to pipe tf down cuz ur actually cringe asf it’s quite embarrassing honestly

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Anonymous #23 13h

This struggle plays out and in time the pleasure wins over time. They favor the drug than real happiness. This is why the cryptic messages comes out. It’s to let you know for him to get a false justification in his head.

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Anonymous OP 13h

Accident? The video is from 2025‼️ that shit is not coming up on his fyp unless he looked it up himself lol, I don’t trust this guy ngl you can’t accidentally do this. I hope you don’t fall for his traps

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Anonymous OP 13h

Nuther reason to dump his ass

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Anonymous OP 12h

Don’t

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Anonymous #30 12h

That’s the only thing he can say to save

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Anonymous OP 11h

FINAL UPDATE: he is no longer my boyfriend

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Anonymous OP 11h

Thank god girl best of luck moving forward.

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Anonymous #32 10h

thanks im gonna need it. i really liked him

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Anonymous OP 10h

He let go so fast.. you dodged a big bullet long term

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Anonymous #10 7h

confirmed lmao

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