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Confessions 7w
Men are weird sometimes what's the point of dating a baddie if you're gonna get all insecure every time she dresses hot or is out in public without you
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Anonymous 7w

Oh no someone might hit on her a bit. If she's worth being with that doesn't matter.

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Anonymous 7w

On god if I’m dating a baddie she can be a baddie like WHAT my steak is too juicy like cmon bro you’re wining enjoy it

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Anonymous 7w

You ain’t lying

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Anonymous 7w

Meanwhile I don’t date anyone at all and I’m still being lumped into the “men” category.

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Anonymous 7w

why’re you dressing hot in public when you’re in a relationship is my question, are you incapable of looking good without dressing hot because if so then you aren’t a “baddie”

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Anonymous 7w

Because it signals to other men she is single and wanting attention.

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Anonymous 7w

Someone might hit on her and take her from him That’s why you can’t date a baddie without being a baddie yourself Date people on your level

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Anonymous 7w

I’m ugly and if my sexy wife wants money she does what I say.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

That's just not how people work lol. This isn't high school, it's a paranoid worry

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

Because people like to feel good about how they look dummy

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

your point is carrying some heavy misogynistic undertones my friend. if you think women only dress “hot” to find a relationship and should stop dressing that way after they get into one, you need to do some self reflecting on why you view women the way you do

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 7w

No, it doesn't, lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Or maybe she’s just a whore

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 7w

No, it doesn't mean that either lol. You can just say you're insecure

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 7w

the main point is it’s for attention, the same way a woman could post herself looking hot on social media it’s for attention. Attention that shouldn’t be sought for while in a relationship. Genuinely what other reason would women dress hot when going out it’s not for themselves you can dress hot at home, the issue is it’s not in public where people can see you and give you that satisfaction

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

People sometimes just like to feel good about how they look man. You're just insecure

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

and if you have to dress a certain way that garners attention to feel good about how you look then that’s a problem, sorry you can’t look good without attention seeking

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

you seem to be uncomfortable that they are drawing your attention. not everything is about you. take a step back and figure out WHY it makes you uncomfortable instead of telling women what they should do to make you feel better about them

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 7w

maybe you’re right, maybe it’s my mentality or the way I view women that’s the issue. I’m not opposed to it being my fault but i’m definitely willing to find the answer

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 7w

thank you for your insight

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

I can appreciate your openness. I apologize for my tone in some messages, but I will never be able to sit by while people continue to tell women what they can and can’t wear based on how it makes other people feel. To me it feels the same as grown adults telling children they can’t wear tank tops cause it’s distracting.

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