I’ve actually been thinking this exact same thing lately! In this dating society and because of the things I’ve heard about men, I’m at a point where I’m thinking of just waiting until marriage. Which would absolutely SUCK and I don’t really want to have to do that, but I also want don’t want to get ghosted by someone after something like that.

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I haven’t lost mine either and I think it’s kind of fine to want it to be seen as something special even if it’s a fetishy thing bcs of the fact it’s a important thing but then again I’m just very romantic minded so I can’t rlly speak for most guys who just want hook ups 😭

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Losing virginity is just a misogynistic concept created by men who wanted women to stay “pure” I’ve had sex and so what 🤷‍♀️ im still the same person

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Wow like honestly I've been feeling that way so it's like I want to experience it but I don't want them to leave either. So I feel like I should wait until I have a boyfriend

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Tbh same,it’s not worth losing your virginity to someone who doesn’t deserve it,and/or someone who’s just going to use you.I’m waiting until marriage and happy that way-it’ll be all the more special and rewarding in the end.Plus i won’t have to worry about getting attached because that’s the nature of sex.It MAKES u attached to people,that’s why it’s so helpful in marriage and unhelpful for hookups.(Scientifically proven- sex releases hormones like oxytocin that make u love the other person more

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Yeah I get it. I wanna lose my virginity but I wanna lose it to love. The rest can be hookups idc, but bc I can't know rn what sex is like and what it means to me i want to lose it to someone I deeply trust

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