Anonymous #1 3w

I want a harem of boyfriends that know ab each other as a girl :p

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Anonymous OP 3w

Then it’s a harem, not a situationship, and you ought to communicate that firsthand, one wrong person can end in a boatload of blood.

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Anonymous #1 3w

I guess but they don’t ever spend time together. They just know I’m also seeing other ppl. Idrc if they are seeing others either. One of them is 25, another 30, and third one is 35 😹

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Anonymous OP 3w

shawty just taking whatever she can get lmaooo, i mean as long as it works

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Anonymous #1 3w

Yeah the 35 year old is lowkey setting me up for success since he’s helping me pay off my student loans and all of my credit card bills so I can start my own business. I share the same hobbies as the 30 year old and he’s sweet. The 25 year old is only a year older than me so we have similar goals

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Anonymous OP 3w

nice setup

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Anonymous #2 3w

No im girlbossing

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Anonymous OP 3w

That’s what being a slut is called now says?

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Anonymous #2 3w

Just say u are broke and have no game 😛🤏

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Anonymous #2 3w

i mean she didn’t say anything about sleeping with 3 people and if their seeing other people then its even game

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Anonymous #1 3w

Yeah cause that’s normal behavior hope u catch an std

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Anonymous #2 3w

It definitely aint but at long as they all doing it I dont see the problem, now if she was juggling 3 dudes between sex and kissing then she needs jesus

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Anonymous #1 3w

Boys are so comfortable w shaming women lol. Ofc I’m not sleeping with them unless there’s commitment. My wallet is getting fatter and the dates are fun. They spoil me in different ways and I’m just reaping the benefits. Just there for vibes. Been chatting with them for 1-4 months now and we’re still getting to know each other

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Anonymous OP 3w

Oh my god that’s even worse somehow.

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Anonymous OP 3w

Yea see sounds like they just have extra time on their hands for a hobby or two with a girl here and there, I dont see the problem.

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Anonymous #1 3w

They sound like simps desperate for female attention, with not enough self respect to get a woman that actually gives a shit about them and had a heart attack

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Anonymous #2 3w

Heart, idk why it added attack 😂

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Anonymous #2 3w

you would have a point if it was 100% confirmed that they were all only talking to her, but if what you are saying is true then that means they arent desireable which says more about op

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Anonymous #2 3w

You really don’t think people that clear over six figures a year have hobbies or seeing other ppl at the same time? We’re all transparent with what we’re looking for and have boundaries. We’re basically just friends that take care of each other. Provide companionship for meals, concerts, giving advice, networking, and trading thoughts one another. Is this really a concept that’s hard to understand?

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Anonymous OP 3w

Honestly yeah, I’m still in college so I can’t even imagine having a gf rn let alone some fuck ass transactional relationship. Your lucky these men don’t have standards

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Anonymous #1 3w

Lol I have standards. The guys are all employed and high expectations for themselves as do I. They’re either ivy educated or they’re pursuing other ventures/studying for their masters…as I’m doing the same too. I met one of them at an entrepreneurship expo, another at a cooking class, and the last one online. Boys don’t understand the concept of courting nowadays 😭

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Anonymous #2 3w

Yeah I understand since I worked three jobs as a full time college student. I just work hard and play hard. I didn’t date in college, only locked in so I can be where I want to be in life. I wanna settle down, so I’m just meeting people from different walks of life 🤷🏻‍♀️ if I’m a gold digger, then so be it. I’m not dating someone who doesn’t share the same values and they’re all happy to provide for me

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Anonymous #3 3w

did you even read the comments

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Anonymous #3 3w

Yup sprinkle sprinkle. My bills, Ubers, nails, spas, and gym membership is all paid for and they paid for my solo vacation to Asia lol. This is excluding the electronics and bags/clothes I get delivered without spending a dime. They also paid for my certifications to advance in my career

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