Confessions on Sidechat | I’m so envious of girls who get taken on dates or get flowers. I hate that my bf doesn’t put in that type of effort anymore.

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I’m so envious of girls who get taken on dates or get flowers. I hate that my bf doesn’t put in that type of effort anymore.

Anonymous 3w

no need to be envious when that effort is out there for you. i’m sure there’s so many other guys who’d be willing to put in the effort with you. if you’ve already talked to your bf about this and he hasn’t done anything to change, it’s time to dump him and make space for another guy who will try. don’t waste your time with him pls

Anonymous 3w

why be envious when you could just get one who does? lol

Anonymous 3w

Maybe you should break up

Anonymous 3w

He’s putting that effort with somebody else

Anonymous 3w

Effort means so much to me. Time to look for a new bf forreal

Anonymous 3w

And yet you’ll stay with him haha

Anonymous 3w

how much effort do you put into him

Anonymous 3w

High maintenance

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Anonymous

#1 3w

it means a lot to me too which is why it sucks he doesn’t put any in :/

Anonymous

#2 3w

Or he will

Anonymous

#2 3w

lmao lowkey has thought this too

Anonymous

OP 3w

It’s not asking a lot. Remember that, don’t let him or anybody make you think you’re asking too much

Anonymous

#1 3w

I’ve told him that before. I always tell him that I’ve been asking for bare minimum and have never asked him to do anything crazy or unobtainable/unrealistic

Anonymous

OP 3w

Why is bare minimum ok? Believe me, I get it. I’ve taken bare minimum before too and we all deserve better

Anonymous

#1 3w

nowhere near okay :/ but that’s my way of justifying the lack of effort

Anonymous

#7 3w

Let’s not victim blame shall we?

Anonymous

#1 3w

I wasn’t victim blaming