Anonymous #1 1w

Definitely a doctor. I’d reccomend an OBGYN specifically, if you can. If the pain is this bad you want a specialist.

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Anonymous #3 1w

Based on your spelling I don't think anyone would ever accuse you of reading something

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Anonymous #3 1w

If you’re gonna use AAVE, do it right 😭

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Anonymous #1 1w

1. I went to a standard hospital (idk what you’d call it) yesterday and they said they didn’t find anything abnormal with me and sent me home with the advice of taking more ibuprofen 2. I have tried to push through multiple times, but he always wants to stop (and I will never push him once he says no) and every time something tries to go in, it just hurts worse every time and for longer periods, no matter what it is

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Anonymous #2 1w

I have an OB appointment already scheduled for early June and I was likely going to bring it up while I was there, I just can’t shake this feeling of inadequacy that I feel every time I think about it or it’s brought up

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Anonymous #5 1w

It’s not that he’s pressuring me, exactly, but he keeps bringing up how excited he is to be able to go all the way with me and how important it is to him and sometimes it makes me wonder if I’m enough for him or if he regrets being with someone who can’t have sex without being in terrible pain

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Anonymous #1 1w

naw we stupid out here 🔥🔥

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Anonymous OP 1w

You’ll never be “enough” for anyone with that mindset. You must love yourself and be patient with yourself, you’re beautiful and there are other ways to express love. If he loves you then you must be enough for him. If he regrets dating you that’s a him problem not a you problem

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Anonymous #5 1w

It’s not that I don’t love myself, but since this whole thing has been happening, it’s brought back old feelings that I had previously worked through and I haven’t been this critical of myself in a long time

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Anonymous OP 1w

Be kind to yourself, at least you’re trying 🫶

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Anonymous OP 1w

Have you talked to your boyfriend about these insecurities you’re having? I know you feel like you’re not enough for him, but that could be your anxiety about this talking. And then even if he doesn’t mean these comments about how he “can’t wait to have sex” in a negative way, he would stop making them. I’m sure he doesn’t want to be making you feel this way, intentionally or not.

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Anonymous #2 1w

(And if he DOES want you to feel inadequate and he’s not receptive when you try to share your feelings and open up to him, then forget him. You deserve better. But I’m worried this may be a miscommunication on his end and he’s just not thinking through the effect his comments have.)

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Anonymous #2 1w

I haven’t, I can’t even lie. Whenever he says these things, it’s always whenever he’s in the mood or passionately talking about our relationship and I don’t want to tell him he has to wait or not express what’s important, because he has a right to that, but I can’t help how I feel about it

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Anonymous OP 1w

Well yes he has a right to express that, but you have a right to feel comfortable and not be made to feel insecure. I understand it’ll be hard to bring up with him but I really think he’d rather know how you feel than be ignorant, if he cares about you he won’t want to be making comments that make you feel inadequate or insecure.

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Anonymous #2 1w

If someone is making you feel insecure, that's not always the other person's fault

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Anonymous #1 1w

Not always no, but it’s not always your fault either. It’s best not to think of it in terms of whose “fault” it is at all—both parties should just be honest about how they feel and work together to try and make everyone happy and comfortable. That’s what a relationship is.

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Anonymous #6 1w

Do it for you, not him! message me if you want to know more about the therapy process

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Anonymous #8 1w

How about you just move on to another post dude.

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