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i’ve been hooking up with this guy i wanted to date but i wasn’t sure if he wanted to date me. well this new guy im talking to wants me to come stay at his house for 3 days as a first date and will pay for gas money. he’s leaving me alone in his house -
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Anonymous 4w

while he goes to work. and leaving me with his keys. and he’s immediately telling me how much he likes me and how much we have in common and how he can tell already that i’m a really genuine and great person. just a reminder to myself that if you can’t tell if a man wants to date you he doesn’t bc they make it very obvious immediately. they have a sense of urgency to lock you down because they recognize your value and don’t want to lose you

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Anonymous 4w

dm

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Anonymous 4w

Dm

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Anonymous 4w

well he lives an hr and a half a way from me and only has a few hours to spend after work a few days a week so this is the only way a date will work bt us. i’m not driving over an hour to meet him at 8pm and leave that night. he just offered me to stay the night if i want and another night if it goes well and i want to. my last relationship our first date was 2 days and our second date was 4 days. it’s not that insane when you really like someone. we talked on the phone for 6 hours yesterday

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

im literally posting about someone im dating… no

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Anonymous 4w

29 and hes 31. this ain’t my first rodeo son

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Anonymous 4w

happy kirkaversary

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I was going to advise against going over but you’re mature enough to make that choice. Hope it works out!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

keep in mind hookup guy hasn’t let me stay the night once and makes me drive home at 4 am. never calls me on the phone to talk to me. never tells me how compatible we are and how great i am. and i was really telling myself maybe he is being honest about really liking me and wanting to date me 😂😂 i should’ve known better. men don’t make you confused when they want a relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

yeah idk what about my post was giving i’m looking for advice lol. but thank you!

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