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I have never given in to hookup culture due to this but I find my life to be extremely sexless and devoid of intimacy. I have no options, and if I were to give in, it’s not like I’d be fulfilled anyway. In fact I would probably feel guilty.
When women have a desire for noncommittal physical intimacy where can we go? We get emotionally draining and unfulfilling FWB. Many men are also unhygienic and don’t even make you orgasm.
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Anonymous 4w

Ok but as someone that would love to give a girl lots of love and affection as a proper fwb, how does one go about even finding someone? A lot of times I overthink things also which doesn’t help…

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Anonymous 4w

Just do it, tell whoever you’re with to shower

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

I don’t believe in sleeping with someone I’m not in a relationship with. It’s just to avoid the possibility of being used for my body and to be with someone who actually values me.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I get what you mean, but if you want sex, something’s gotta give, I make sure and treat whoever I’m with like my gf, even though I know they just want to hookup, who knows maybe you’ll have that luck too

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I am not completely sure on this because I also seem to be incapable at attracting people in my daily life. Maybe you can have your friends introduce you to women through mutuals. A lot of women in my life don’t mind fwb.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Maybe. I also just moved to a new town and I guess I’m more needy rn than usual cause I legit just want more friends. My girl best friend from back home said all the girls she knew weren’t worth giving them any attention for one reason or another

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