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Confessions 10w
Wanting sex but not wanting a hookup is actually a curse when ur chronically single
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Anonymous 10w

REAL. Like I need to know and like someone’s personality but I don’t want commitment right now either

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Anonymous 10w

wanting just sex but not wanting to hurt someone’s feelings i’d argue is worse

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Anonymous 10w

What’s worse is wanting sex, not wanting a hookup, settling for a hookup, and can’t even get that

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Anonymous 10w

I hate being a girl sometimes… wish I could just be like a guy and fuck with no feelings 😞💔 (ngl no i don’t it just sucks)

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Anonymous 10w

This is so true

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Anonymous 10w

Women are picky these days lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

Hmm I would not be in that boat. I def want commitment as a prerec to having sex. I am jut picky and emotionally unstable lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

I get that, I’m just not in a place to be settling down with someone for the rest of my life, I gotta live a little but I also need personality lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

Idk if i am either i just can’t do sex casually 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

I’m a guy and can’t do that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Every girl I have done anything with did it without feelings and I couldn’t 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Ahh then that’s amazing! A girl will come. A girl will come. 🫶🏽

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

That fuckin sucks. They are lame. I have only ever known guys to fuck with no feelings.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

Yea I hope so 😭like idk I said I am also kinda picky I don’t wanna just fuck/be with anyone yk.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

I’m not sure how that scenario would come about?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

because you still care about the person, but you’re only physically attracted to them not romantically

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

Um well I guess if everyone is on the same page?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

everyone is not on the same page

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

It would suck to me if someone only saw me attractive physically 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

sometimes people just aren’t interesting cold truth

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

That’s fair. It’s alright to be picky but then it takes longer to find someone. Which is fine too I guess 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

Then instead of going as far as fucking just like don’t go further. Playing with someone is stupid.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

Yea it’s been too long……… I still remember my last like big crush and damn I haven’t felt anything like that since 💔

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

that’s why its hard because you aren’t fucking them but you’re attracted to them

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

I feel like most people aren’t fucking most people they find attractive I fear….

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

I dont really think this is that complicated sometimes you’re talking to someone who wants something romantic and you find them attractive, but you dont want to do anything because they are a commitment person

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Crushes suck 😞

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

I mean idk if it’s worse lol but sure 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

I mean I wish they did to me 🥲 but yea 💔💔sorry queen I hope u find what ur lookin for

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

yeah maybe bc of pos "men" like you

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