Confessions on Sidechat | i didn’t lose my virginity until i was 20 so it’s kinda peculiar to me when i find out people (my current age) were being fast way younger. i understand most times it’s due to trauma coping but aside from that where were ur parents omg???

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i didn’t lose my virginity until i was 20 so it’s kinda peculiar to me when i find out people (my current age) were being fast way younger. i understand most times it’s due to trauma coping but aside from that where were ur parents omg???

Anonymous 2w

Mom dead, Dad drunk af.

Anonymous 2w

I also thought that too because sex was just not on my mind as a young teen, I was also too busy to even think about. I didn’t lose it till 18 like even then barely wanted to.

Anonymous 2w

Lost my virginity when I got married, never been with anyone else. Not sure how I feel about it.

Anonymous 2w

Muslim household haha

Anonymous 2w

I was 18 but it was peer pressure honestly. My parents shamed me for it.

Anonymous 2w

“fast” is a weird way to put it… teenagers are hormonal, sexual experimentation is normal. nothing wrong with that as long as they were staying safe

Anonymous

#1 2w

trauma response that’s totally understand though. i hope life is treating you better now

Anonymous

OP 2w

Yeah I have a sex addiction but over all functional. I lost my virginity to my Step Mom at 14.

Anonymous

#3 2w

even when i lost it i wasn’t even interested in sex. i was always focused on myself growing up

Anonymous

#4 2w

i wanted to save mine for someone special but i got peer pressured by my “friends” at the time. if i wasn’t peer pressured im pretty sure id still be a virgin and id be happy with that

Anonymous

wing_leader 2w

i was peer pressured too. i grew up never really being interested in sex but i did look up to having a emotional connection. if i wasn’t peer pressured i still could have been a virgin to this day

Anonymous

#5 2w

mexican household here

Anonymous

OP 2w

Same when I lost it, I honestly wasn’t in the mood and I just let him so he’d let me out the room. I do have a healthy relationship with sex now and with my bf who has made it positive.

Anonymous

OP 2w

I’m sorry that was your experience. It was also what I thought had to do to earn love from a guy. Definitely not something I want my future daughter to ever think. I was failed but I won’t fail her.