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The fact she gave herself to strangers so easily and is having sex with another man and I never got to have sex with her even once makes me want to punch a wall repeatedly until I break my hand Is that normal
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Anonymous 1w

I mean to be fair that happened with my ex. She hooked up with the first guy after me after a few days and I was like the f haha

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Anonymous 1w

No. You should seek therapy. She has just as much autonomy to have sex with whomever she wants as you do. Your rage is concerning.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

I wonder. Do you see her as a person or as a commodity you want to possess?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

No I saw her as a person. she only slept with guys who saw her as a commodity to possess unfortunately, something I tried to explain to her.

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Anonymous 1w

First of all I’m not that unattractive

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Your personal attractive level (which is super arbitrary btw and completely unique to every single person’s perception) doesn’t matter if she isn’t attracted to you. You can’t make someone feel someone feel something for you and I’m sorry it hurts but the way you think you should be able to “talk her into” wanting you says you don’t actually think of her as a person the way you think you do.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Then fuck her for sleeping with strangers and not even considering me when I was the clear choice that’s the dumbest thing ever

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Anonymous 1w

No I already realized that. I have essentially a date locked in with someone who’s an actually green flag, but the problem is for some reason I still find myself insanely attracted to her and essentially obsessed with her

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

So the D1 football player that came to her apartment and 3am and broke in thought she was a person if I did that I’d legit be in prison he does that they fuck it’s genuinely not fair

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

There’s also probably 100 other scenarios like that I don’t know about

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Ok I was being nice earlier but apparently that doesn’t work with you. Just from this conversation I can say you aren’t a “clear choice” you’re jealous and possessive over a person that isn’t yours. She fucked strangers who couldn’t hurt her because they weren’t in her life and their opinions didn’t matter. You obviously are in her life and I can’t say whether your opinion matters to her but I can say that I don’t blame her for not choosing you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

So you’re saying if I wasn’t in her life that probably would’ve been better for me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Might be better for you if you weren’t. Go find someone who wants you to be obsessed with them. I’d still suggest getting some therapy for the rage and to learn some coping mechanisms.

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