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Why do men lie about their heights? I’ll date a short king I won’t date a liar
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Anonymous 1d

Because I’m 6’7 and tired of hearing that dumbass joke so until further notice I’m 6’8

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Anonymous 1d

they lie about age too

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Anonymous 1d

The problem is there’s a significant number of women who will literally not even entertain a guy who is under 6 ft (which is crazy IMO as a woman who lovessss a short king btw) but like of course there’s incentive to exaggerate their height when it’s a well known fact that a lot of women immediately think less of shorter dudes (sadly)

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Anonymous 23h

Genuinely no idea. I am 5’5 and proud of it, and if a girl isn’t interested in me because of my height I wouldn’t want to entertain her anyways. And I hit the gym so I’ve always been able to life and carry my partners quite easily despite height and weight differences in the past :)

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Anonymous 20h

I’m 5’9 but with shoes I’m 5’10 but with my hair I’m 5’11 but I gotta round that up to 6’0

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Anonymous 18h

it’s so silly bc what do u think is gonna happen when u meet up 😭

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Anonymous 21h

I hat about 8 inches and thick?

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Anonymous 1d

women also lie about things. I think dudes who lie about height just are insecure and that’s kind of valid. Depends how many inches they add before they become a weirdo liar just one inch is usually fine

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Anonymous 1d

And I’ll make fun of you for lying it’s not like your height’s changing

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Anonymous 1d

mind you they’re gonna find out anyways

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Anonymous 1d

We found the dude who lies about being 6 foot, yall

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Anonymous 1d

Personally, if a guy lies about little things, he’s gonna lie about big things. If you can’t even be honest with yourself, how will you be honest with me? I don’t give a shit how tall you are, I give a shit about your self-respect 🫩

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Anonymous 1d

Personally, I’m picky when it comes to details about the person, so DONT LIE. The reason a person can’t bag baddies is because they’re not even comfortable with their own truths; if you can’t be honest with yourself or others, you shouldn’t date. No lie = better life

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

Isn’t makeup also a form of lying?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

No, it brings out details. Do you think highlighting a printed paper changes it?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

Does it also hide details? Is it ok for guys to wear lifts in their shoes?

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Anonymous 1d

What women have you met to even believe that? The women I’m around wants someone who’s honest, yk, not a blind-faced liar

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

Jesus just answer the fucking question 🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

No

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Anonymous 1d

why waste both of yalls times by lying. ts makes no sense. she finds out he short now she knows he’s a liar, won’t give him a chance. and he wasted his time. just be honest to filter out the people who don’t want short men and save time??

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

I think she answered it by not answering it

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

Huh

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

No she did not, she just ignored the question and refused to answer.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

Because if she actually answered the truth, she will be contradicting herself. So therefore her not answering is actually answering.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

It’s valid to lie?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

She gave you a counter argument, I think you just don’t understand how human interaction takes place at an intellectual level.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

Can you both just shut the fuck up?

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

Aww name calling is so intellectual. Thank you for revealing yourself

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

I think when people believe their genes are threatened by modern society, and social media trends and forced into insecurity. Lying becomes just a sweet cry for help, it can be appreciated if you’re an empathetic person. There’s a reason I said one inch, and not 5 inches.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

They still lying 😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

Ya, but so many other people lie. We all hide our insecurities in different ways. I mean being short inherently isn’t bad unless you’re ugly, and if you are you’re kind of just cooked

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

Jesus the person is still lying, what do you not get??

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

You being insecure about your hight does not change the fact that adding inches is lying

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

I mean you don’t have to date them or even talk to them, i’m just giving you a reason why it could be justified. I’m an empath, so yeah. I wouldn’t date a liar, actually yeah that’s a lie. But, i’m gonna go confront her right now. Bye!

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

Yeah well the idea is that you’re using Jesus’s name yet, Jesus led liars to love, murderers to salvation, etc. Jesus has love for all people even lying. Sooo yeah.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

I answered the prompt I didn’t say nobody was forced to date a liar, I just gave a reason.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

If she cannot even face the original argument head on, how do you expect me to even get a straight response or ask from her?

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

Not everyone is a Christian, you strip of asswax. 🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

The reason does not validate lying, as you said. Lying is bad, how do you not get that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

Well I agree lying is bad, all things that are bad are bad. But things can be perceived in the light of love. Are you not religious? Or philosophical? You ever taken a psychedelic drug? Well there’s a lesson about love, in all those things depending on what you get it from and how.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

I haven’t downvoted a single one of your comments. Nor has my facial expression changed on this thread. I can’t say the same for you. I don’t like liars, but I can attempt to understand and validate them while also keeping them away from myself. Because, if there’s one thing about being human. It’s that we all make mistakes and we learn.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

I can love a person and not romanticize their habit of lying; what does philosophy or religion have to do with it??

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

Jesus you’re just yapping about nothing atp

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

It’s like the same logic, of beating your animals is wrong. Even if your dog chews up something, beating them down and spreading more hate doesn’t fix the issue. I think it’s good to calmly reject that person, and ask them to be more transparent instead of shaming them for their height.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

And to answer your questions, no a highlighter can’t hide the details it highlights, and a dude can wear shoes because I’d rather prefer he doesn’t walk in barefoot

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

I’m quite literally just telling you it’s okay to treat people with grace and still reject them… There’s no reason to lie, besides the absurdity of the human mind and the trauma within it. Neuroscience!

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

Didn’t tell you to romanticize lying, in fact i’ve called it bad in multiple of my messages. Told you to romanticize treating the liar with grace, but showing them there is consequences to their actions. Basically.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

I JUST said “I can love a person and not romanticize their habit of lying”

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

People are not dogs. People who beat dogs are bad. A man lying about his height is not the equivalent of a dog chewing something up.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

Well i never mentioned romanticizing lying lol. All I did was give an explanation on why they might’ve lied, not a justification an explanation. Told you that, love is the way, and that you should treat them with respect but not let them have their way. Meaning you reject the liar, but give them some advice of being more confident in themselves or something, especially if you enjoyed talking to them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

I’m gonna ignore you ngl this is going nowhere 🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

I agree, have a nice one.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

They reflect each other very well. You don’t understand my analogy at all though. I think there’s an intelligence barrier between us 😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 23h

hell yeah bro

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Anonymous 22h

idk about other ladies but I like men around the same height as me, I’m around 5’1-ish so 5’0-5’5 is great :)

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Anonymous replying to -> bunnybunb 22h

Sure you may not which I applaud and appreciate. However look at all your girlfriends and family. What percent of bf that they all had that were taller than them and or around 6’ for no reason. If they are tall themselves sure that I understand

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 21h

oooo I like tall women :3

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 21h

LMAO anyway yeah no I understand your point tho I’m just yapping

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 21h

no that’s too much tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 21h

try 4-5 inches

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 20h

This is the only valid reason

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 19h

LMFAO

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19h

I wouldn’t say makeup is a form of lying specifically because if someone asked if I had makeup on I’d say yes. I don’t care if they know. Same with the lifts. Yeah a man can wear them but don’t go around saying you’re 6’2 to possible dates when you’re wearing four inch lifts or platforms.

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 19h

see the problem is that many (not all) men are fooled easily by makeup for some reason and assume it’s what a woman actually looks like until she takes it off. Idk why they got makeup blindness but yeah. And ones that complain are usually a certain type ykwim? XD

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 19h

what if I like em ugly 😈😈

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 18h

you should try wearing makeup you might like it bro

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Anonymous replying to -> bunnybunb 18h

So lying in physical form … gotcha

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 18h

gonna show up in stilts crazy

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 16m

fuck you are annoying it’s not lying in physical form, if you wanna wear some giant boots to compensate for being short go the fuck ahead! I wouldn’t gaf if a short dude that liked me decided to wear those I’d be all over him regardless. I wouldn’t be calling him a liar because it’s just apart of the outfit bro. Anyway like I said before you should try makeup, maybe you’d get some more pussy. Bitches love guyliner including me. 😛😛

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Anonymous replying to -> bunnybunb 3m

Hmm make up may or may not help. So I could go from my currently having sex 3 times a week to 3.25?

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