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If my mom asks me one more time when I’m getting married ill scream im only 21 my life is meant for more than just being a wife or mother she’s upset that im “rejecting our culture”
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Anonymous 6w

a good mother would do everything she can to keep her daughter from marriage

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Anonymous 6w

Might just be because it’s what’s done all this time. It’s a cycle, when you break it or stray from the norm there’s bound to be pushback or confusion. Marriage isn’t bad at 21, just not what you want to do

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Anonymous 6w

My mom expects me to have kids…. She tells me how much she can’t wait to have grandkids and when I’m like “but I don’t want to have kids, and if I do I want to adopt.” Her reaction is, “oh honey, you only feel that way right now, wait until you’re older.” I’m 20. I’ve been saying that since I was 16. Trust me, I don’t think I’ll be changing my mind any time soon. (Pregnancy scares me anyways)

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