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Confessions 19h
i’d rather stay a virgin forever than sleep with someone i don’t trust, doesn’t even make logical sense to me. sm things could go wrong
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Anonymous 19h

This is entirely valid and SMART. Coming from a non-virgin, please stay on this. I now have this mindset, haven't had sex in well over a year and I don't want to. Bc ts is DANGEROUS and terrifying. You're entirely vulnerable, at the whims of a physically superior individual who is inserting a part of their body inside of your body. Trusting them not to harm you? Violate you? With how men are nowadays? HAHA no. Idk how ppl do it and continue to do it.

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Anonymous 19h

same

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Anonymous 14h

Wait I just hooked up with my ex… maybe this is a sign I needed😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

Even before the insertion, if you change your mind?? Or if you just wanna make out while they're locked in on full sex?? I've had to pm fist fight my way out of a few situations. I've almost bashed a guy's PlayStation to bits to let him let me go. And that's not even the actual sex part yet.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

So, to my younger ladies (I'm 26), PLEASE stay vigilant. Keep yourself safe. Respect and honor yourself. Only get with a VERY SAFE MAN who has earned your FULL TRUST. It honestly doesn't even feel good without that full trust anyways.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

no frr this is why one night stands are even so dangerous to me, bc 1. hello STDs?? u don’t know what that person has, and 2. ur immediately giving them ur address or vice versa, and yeah i believe id feel sm better with someone i have an emotional connection with but thats just personal preference

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

YUP!!! Plus it doesn't matter how sweet/kind/harmless/respectful/etc a guy seems. Any of them can turn into a completely different person once they get you where they want you. So they need to have earned your full trust. And yeah, for MOST women, you actually DO need full trust and an emotional connection to reach the big O. Which is why so many girls think they can't cum from penetration. Their dick game doesn't matter if your mind/body/soul aren't all into it!!

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