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My bf is close friends with my roommate and her bsf. We were all drinking and she laid her head on his lap. I was pissed, took a pic and showed ppl I was with. I am now being told I’m a bully when boundaries were so crossed
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Anonymous 2d

taking a picture to show people is a weird reaction when you should just talk to the people involved

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Anonymous 2d

Talk to the people involved, especially right when it happens. Instead of saying nothing, taking a picture, and showing it around.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

I wouldn’t call you a bully but that was the wrong choice. Communication. Express that that was a boundary which was crossed

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

The photo was taken as we were in a group of a bunch of people and I shouldn’t have taken. I promptly told my bf that he crossed a boundary. The next morning he was consoling my her while she cried about how I was a bully

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

The photo was a bit much, but I feel like you’re not wrong for being upset and the people around you should be supporting you more than they currently are (idk the full context or how yalls relationship is but that sort of reaction is a bit weird from him)

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