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Confessions 5w
Being in love with someone you can’t have is the worst kind of pain
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Anonymous 5w

Felt :(

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Anonymous 5w

It’s infatuation and obsession at most

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Anonymous 5w

not really. just refuse to feel entitled to their romantic / sexual attention… set a boundary in your own brain and move on with your life. you’re playing yourself

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Anonymous 5w

felt on a diff level

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Just because it’s not reciprocated doesn’t mean it’s not felt. They are scientifically proving it’s physical affects on you body and physical heart.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Why did you just speak over their experiences 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

They feel the same why just the situation is complicated

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Oh I didn’t realize that. So they both care but can not be together??

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

Yeah pretty much, the girl knows that he’s the one for her but won’t do anything about it, there’s sooooo much information to the story but the jist is pretty much they just can’t be together and the guy can’t do shit or say anything about it because it’s not his choice it’s hers but she’s conflicted

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

If she knows he is the one what is the conflict?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

She has a boyfriend

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I’d say that’s a pretty big conflict if you ask me lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Obviously he is not the one then. Or she just isn’t interested or she would let him go.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

Unreciprocated?? Love sucks!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

Yeah idk this is like the classic be with me leave him type of deal but ig she loves both of them and doesn’t want to let either one of them go.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Which one is the better choice for her future is the real question. People are attracted to what they can’t have.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

I mean they both love each other a lot it’s just the situation is deams so that they can’t be together

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

For right now at least

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I have been here before and can empathize with it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

I guess I just have to wait yk,

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Yes, it’s a game if you put it on the table that’s all you can do. lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

Yeah I guess so, my biggest fear is that what if the feelings go away yk

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I think if you actually fall in love it’s always there.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

I think you are right

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

It probably takes time, someone different, a new brain change to even begin to heal it and someone you feel is more worthy than the first one you fell for. Which is the hard part.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

I suppose I just need to be patient and keep doing what I’m doing and don’t change yk

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Did you talk to her? Maybe she feels differently than you think?

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