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Confessions 2w
Tw I left the blk community most of them see that abuse is severe in our community. I was abused my entire childhood I was SA more than 5 times from 9-17 yrs old. Nobody did nothing it was “that’s just discipline.” If mentioned now your anti blk wtf😐
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Anonymous 2w

I’m sorry that no one took you seriously. There is also this literal crab in a bucket mentality in our community. Like “how you get better then me?” “ you talking all white now?” “ you really doing too much” like I went active duty, got out and currently working as an engineer. The isolation that our group creates as if we all need to suffer.

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Anonymous 2w

I feel you so hard. Like so hard you don’t understand. - A fellow blk community leaver

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Anonymous 2w

I'm so sorry for your experiences in the community😔proud of you for leaving though. It's hard when people don't want to take you seriously and act as if things like SA aren't a huge ongoing problem

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Anonymous 2w

how do u leave the black community u don’t stop being black

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

No you don’t stop being black but you also don’t have to associate yourself with them. I am my own person I rely on myself. If I need help I either figure it out or save it for another time. I refuse to associate with something or group that has caused me more trauma pain and harm. I’ve been in therapy for years I am just now processing what I went through. So please don’t

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

I know I’m a get a bunch of hate comments and ppl trying to argue with me but I’m over it honestly. Outside ppl were quick to help me and understand what I was going through but my own community couldn’t even give me advice. That’s not okay that’s a problem actually.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

It is a huge problem on the community and swept under the rug alot of the times. Ppl will say to "keep the peace" or make up excuses for this behavior. I'm sorry that people are misunderstanding what you're saying

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

It’s all good Thx for understanding 🫶🏾

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