Confessions on Sidechat | Just moved back in with my parents; my dad keeps doing this thing where I’ll tell him something and he disregards it, just to mention/validate it after speaking to a man about it. Like… did I not say that last week??

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Just moved back in with my parents; my dad keeps doing this thing where I’ll tell him something and he disregards it, just to mention/validate it after speaking to a man about it. Like… did I not say that last week??

Anonymous 1d

My daughter just moved back in and she’s doing that thing where she assumes that every perceived slight is a gender thing

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Anonymous

#1 1d

It’s not on purpose but u may be exhibiting subconscious traits rooted in sexism that have been normalized over generations and it’s not even like you are meaning to or think of it that way. I think she really loves you and trusts you as her dad if she’s coming to you with this

Anonymous

#2 1d

I don’t have a daughter I was explaining this from the dads pov

Anonymous

#1 1d

Ohhhh well it’s natural for dad to be hurt and to get defensive but she’s coming to her dad as her safe person

Anonymous

#1 1d

Got u

Anonymous

#1 1d

No, like this is something that’s been CONSISTENT. If it was a one-off thing, I’d understand that I’m probably looking too closely at it, but it’s hurtful at this point. He’ll openly criticize my opinion and then come back with a similar/the same viewpoint that he previously dismissed, usually after having had a conversation with/seeing a post on social media made by a man. Genuinely asking, if it’s not a gender thing, why does it happen?