i asked my coworker to ask our mutual friend about her bf and he said i’ll ask her in our native language n i said no that’s kind of rude cause im here and i don’t speak it. he said how? and got mad and called me racist. now i’m thinking im racist
What did you want your coworker to ask? Like why didn’t you ask?
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Anonymous4w
we are all colored so idk why he’s constantly telling me i’m racist when i’m literally not trying to
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Anonymous#14w
if she had a bf like he found out she had a bf, told me, and so i wanted to ask her but he’s like no yall aren’t close like me and her are
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AnonymousOP4w
You aren’t racist
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Anonymous#14w
then why is he all mad and literally not talking to me. his back turned and everything acting like a women
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AnonymousOP4w
Bc he’s a rude asshole and he probably wanted to hide info from you
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Anonymous#14w
but she’s my friend too like i get if she didn’t want to tell me that’s fine no big deal but it’s just a boy. i don’t get him he’s so confusing
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AnonymousOP4w
You definitely aren’t racist
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Anonymous#14w
then why is he constantly telling me that i am. i realized i grew up unintentionally thinking some ways like that because thats the way my parents just talked to me but i grew up and learned for myself and i just don’t understand how.
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AnonymousOP4w
I don’t think you’re racist at all and I think he’s being an asshole- and I’m saying this as someone who’s a different race
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Anonymous#14w
i’m latina grew up white and my coworker is asian
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AnonymousOP4w
He’s an asshole I promise you aren’t being racist
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Anonymous#14w
he is an asshole i’m about to tell my boss because this isn’t the first time and i feel lik quiting. he makes me cry when i get home