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My best friend of over 13 years has been ghosting me since last august. No clue what I did or why but it’s fucking up my view on friendships and relationships in general. I miss her and it feels like I’m grieving our friendship. I
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Anonymous 4w

What’s your new readjusted view lookin like?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Honestly it has me feeling like our friendship was just not as strong as it seemed. I’m trying to reevaluate what a good friend is and how to become a better friend to others. For now I’ll focus on my other friends and leave her be. It’s prolly for the best anyways

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Idk girl, I been there and I completely disagree with your approach. If you honestly didn’t do anything to her and she just doin this out of nowhere, you shouldn’t have to turn yourself inside out trying to figure it out. People come people go 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Thanks for the feedback. I’m still accepting that it may just be that it was her time to leave my life. It’s been rough cuz she’s been there for years but also hasn’t so I have mixed feelings. Thanks again tho 🫶🏼

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