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Using dialators because an object slightly wider than one finger hurts(vaginismus a bitch) and I’m too straight for penetration not to be part of my sex repertoire, but ngl the amount of men turned on by my being tight enough for it to hurt is major ick.
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Anonymous 1d

That’s scary that they are that indifferent to your severe pain. It would also hurt them too realistically

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Anonymous 1d

Thats how i feel but about my fucked up pelvic floor muscles. Some are too tight so it makes penetration painful and i can't talk about it ever

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Anonymous replying to -> qtieee 1d

You’d think they’d make that connection. Apparently they don’t.

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Anonymous replying to -> qtieee 1d

Made it a new rule for myself that I’m not going on a date until I get to the largest of my dilators comfortably. It will take a while but I’m prone to giving up & avoiding pain but am also reward motivated. So everytime I want to get off have to use the one I’m on. It’s getting significantly easier to insert (1st week, 3rd session with my new set) and I’ve heard it’s easier to move up than to start, so I’m optimistic.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Mine are spastic. I just want to enjoy some fucking sex without the hassle 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Honestly mine were never fucked up until i had sex and now its never been the same

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I had sex with my ex, it got easier but I still bled & the first insert always felt like I was being ripped apart. With the dilators I don’t bleed. I miss all the other parts of sex, it would be so much easier if I liked women more but no my brain says women are pretty but it still wants men.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Btw I opened my dms if you want to vent. I can recommend some dilators if you need.

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