You cannot ask someone to be a safe space if you yourself are not a safe space. I could express every reason why I like you but if you think everything I say is a lie there is no point. I cannot trust someone that doesn’t trust me.
If you roll your eyes every time I express my thoughts what makes you think I would want to open up any further? You judged me before I could even get a word out and blamed me for the thoughts you conjured.