Anonymous #1 21h

Literally no it doesn't lmao

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Anonymous OP 21h

Literally it does, but you can have your opinion

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Anonymous #1 21h

if men don’t want to be ghosted maybe they shouldn’t be disrespectful 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous #2 21h

OP said a little uncomfortable or disrespectful. What if it was misunderstood? There’s a lot of variables here that make this seem like an avoidant making excuses

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Anonymous #1 21h

what if the moon was made of cheese? what if you didn’t immediately take the side of a man that did something weird?

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Anonymous #3 20h

why is it her responsibility to educate them? why can’t they take the initiative and go Hmm if someone ghosted me maybe i should look back at my own actions and ask the people around me/ask online if i did anything

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Anonymous #2 20h

Bc that’s weird. Adults tell each other when they do something they don’t like, kids even learn that.

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Anonymous #1 20h

adults also learn you can’t control anyone’s actions but your own

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Anonymous #2 20h

They wouldn’t control them, they’d let them know their mistake. Guys can handle it and if they apologize and realize what they did, it shows that they’re a man who can take accountability

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Anonymous #1 20h

in my experience they absolutely cannot lol. it’s more stress and headache to try and explain to a man how he made you uncomfortable. i don’t blame anyone for ghosting instead of putting themselves through that

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Anonymous #2 20h

So basically we have a woman who picks emotionally immature men and then labels all men as incompetent. Ik in my relationships I’ve owned up to things or discussed them to be able to move past something. Seems like you should have higher standards in your dating life.

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Anonymous #1 20h

yeah obviously? which is why i dont date anymore. i <3 how instead of being like Omg wow ig more men than i thought are shitty you immediately put all the blame on me. maybe you’re not as emotionally mature as you think :/

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Anonymous #2 20h

Women like you are the problem. Just like some men are the problem. It’s good you don’t date, give you time to look introspectively.

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Anonymous #1 20h

if you think i’m the problem bc im doing something right lol thank youuu!!

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Anonymous #2 20h

Hopefully you’ll see it clearly soon. If there’s one thing I’ve learned about women, it’s a CLEAR lack of accountability. You proved my point, thank you!

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Anonymous #2 20h

I’m not pointing fingers at anyone blaming them for anything. I’m just saying it’s generally a good idea to tell the other person what they did wrong instead of assuming they should know. It’s not your responsibility, but it is generally good etiquette for whoever they might meet next.

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Anonymous #1 20h

sorry what else do you expect me to be accountable for? men’s shitty behavior? am i not taking accountability for my own actions by not dating?

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Anonymous #2 19h

Pretty sure by not dating you subconsciously realize you’re the problem.

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Anonymous #1 19h

okay then i’m the problem. am i not already taking accountability for that by not dating? wouldn’t someone who actually WAS the problem continue to date anyway?

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Anonymous #1 9h

I think it literally doesn't matter lol I don't have to continue to deal with you if I don't want to deal with you, you can find somebody else to deal with you who's more tolerant than I am or be the grown adult that you are and reflect on your actions on your own time

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Anonymous #3 9h

I don't need to be told everything I've done wrong to know I've done something wrong and I don't need to initiate a "hard conversation" with someone I have no interest in being further involved with lol I'm shaking my hands clean, you're not my problem anymore

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