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idk why cheating is so normalized its so fucking sinister. you have to be such an evil person to be able to gaslight and manipulate someone like that. its evil af. it is sa anf idgaf what anyone thinks
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Anonymous 5w

It’s definitely not SA

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Anonymous 5w

cheating when it includes a sexual aspect is sexual assualt fuck off. i got an std from that shit literally fuck off yall are so misinformed

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Anonymous 5w

No honestly I agree. If they are presenting it as something other than what it is and typically putting you at risk for STDs then it is SA. SA is defined as ANY TYPE of sexual contact or behavior that occurs without the EXPLICIT VOLUNTARY AND INFORMED CONSENT. It is a criminal act regardless the RELATIONSHIP BRW the parties

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Anonymous 5w

yall are fucking weird. u were trying to discredit my point by saying that i only consider it real SA because i havent “experienced anything worse” and then when i tell you how i HAVE experienced much worse you tell me im lying and downvote me. but yeah sureee believe victims. if you dont think cheating is SA im going to assume ur a cheater

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Anonymous 5w

A cheating bf and and one that doesn’t tell you he has an STD are two different things. One sometimes causes the other, but one is a clear crime, while the other one is real morally wrong, but not SA.

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Anonymous 5w

Damn you’re dim

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

it is fuck off. i wouldnt have consented to having raw sex with my bf if i had known he was fucking other people. shut up

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

anyways you can search informed consent on your own time

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

It isn’t. You consented to the physical pleasure. If you didn’t know the situation, that’s not SA that’s deception

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

ik you have allegations lmao cause the “deception” is literally SA u idiot its the lack of informed consent… that is not how consent works its not just saying yes.. if you decieve or pressure someone its sa ur gross idk why

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Ok wel you referring to my sexual life is sexual behavior that I didn’t consent to so you just sexually assaulted me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

ur weird af. shut up

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Or maybe we can admit that some people go through shit worse than what we might have gone through. Is that possible? Let words mean something

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

words do have meaning. sexual assualt is a spectrum. this is the shittiest argument. i was gangraped in HS, i was molested as a kid… i have been through way worse. and cheating is STILL sexuall assault. u dont get yo just compare shit and be like oh well theres worse??? thats not how it workda

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

quit acting like u gaf about any victim 🫠🫠 ur obv a cheating pos have a bad day

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Right, because I’m going to believe someone that casually says I’m a rapist and tells me to kill myself. You’ve never been through anything worse than cheating, if you had you might have conducted yourself like an adult. It’s not a spectrum. Getting cheated on is getting cheated on. Getting assaulted is getting assaulted

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

no rape is a spectrum. literlaly just fuck off u dont need to believe me just fuck off.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

shut up

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

in what world did u think a boy cheating on me was gonna tell me he had an std dumb fuck when he couldnt even twll me he cheated stupid ahh

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

“two different things” wow ur so smart u fucking idiot

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

The risk is SIGNIFICANTLY HIGHER that’s still disgusting. Glad you think it’s a clear crime though, literally proved the point.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

What the fuck is your problem. You immediately went to them calling you a rapist? Where the fuck was that. Own up that you’re a shitty human honestly and change your ways of thinking. Because no informed consent implies INFORMATION. You can’t fucking give consent when you’re under the impression your sig other didn’t cheat. It’s the same as if they recorded you without permission, if you don’t know what you’re agreeing to: ITS SA

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