
ofc! my boyfriend would lie about using it a lot and every time i found out about it happening again it ruined my self esteem. i eventually could not take the pain of being lied to and being stressed out that he was always doing it. i’m a freshman in college and he stayed in our hometown while i moved two hours away. i didn’t emerge myself in the college experience because i felt like i needed to constantly facetime him or text him at any free moment
it also progressed to him lusting after girls at his work which hurt beyond belief. the day before we broke up we went to the movies and there was a sex scene and i just started crying because i was so stressed out it was gonna trigger him again. the next day my mom asked us to pick up my little sister from dance and i was so anxious the whole time that the college age girls would walk by in their tiny dance outfits. it was becoming a lot on my mental health. ultimately though i broke up with…
Your strength in honesty is something most humans lack. “No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful. He will also provide a way out so that you can endure it.” 1 Corinthians 10:13 I encourage you to follow Jesus. He has helped me with my mental illness, my lusting, my behaviors in general. I love you and wish you the very best❤️😊
first, fuck you. second, no he was absolutely obsessed with me and i broke his heart. we were sexually active and it was ruining our relationship. i also mentioned that the lying was the main issue. he was going to therapy and meeting with our old youth pastor every single week because he knew he had a real problem.