Confessions on Sidechat | I can't STAND fuckers who pull the whole 'So it really hurt when I asked xyz and you instead did abc' 'Well MY FEELINGS ARE HURT THAT YOU DIDN'T-' like nah, lights, wrap it up. Conversation over, I now know you have 0 EQ points and lost a lot of respect.

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I can't STAND fuckers who pull the whole 'So it really hurt when I asked xyz and you instead did abc' 'Well MY FEELINGS ARE HURT THAT YOU DIDN'T-' like nah, lights, wrap it up. Conversation over, I now know you have 0 EQ points and lost a lot of respect.

Anonymous 1d

that shit is toxic agreed. Like if you have an additional issue you want to bring up, that’s fine. It’s not fine to weaponize “well MY feelings are hurt that blah blah” in response to someone proactively communicating and being honest/direct about how something made them feel. Massive red flag. 10 year old type behavior

Anonymous

#1 15h

Exactly. It's just such a primitive mode of thought. It's such basic textbook bullshit that it's one of those things that just instantly flips how I view a person. Regardless of the nature of our relationship Like ohhhhh you have a lottttt of work to do and you don't seem aware that you need to nor do you seem interested in doing so, so I'd just rather not have all that mess around me Like if they're aware and working on it it's fine. But that's a RARE occurrence.