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my bf calls me frugal but I feel like I don’t spend recklessly. I used to be very bad w money management now I’m not. He comes from a rich family so I feel like he doesn’t understand I have to stick to a budget to reach any financial stability.
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Anonymous 5w

That’s what being frugal is

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

He’s not calling you frugal in a condescending way is he?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I think it’s just budgeting. I still splurge on him with expensive gifts & we take turns paying for dates, still regularly buy myself things.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

yes it’s condescending

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