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I hate being fat. I’m a hopeless romantic. I just want to find my forever person. But I’m huge. If someone likes me, I assume they’re either fetishizing my size or it’s a prank. I can’t get in a relationship when I still hate myself so much
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Anonymous 4w

Down 70 lbs, never been happier. Love comes to you when you love yourself, it’s not about size it’s about learning to love you 1st.

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Anonymous 5w

Love yourself, life’s short ! You attract what you’re..

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Anonymous 4w

I mean I’ve been big my whole life… like fat not even big. But lost like 50 pounds this year and I’m not even at my goal. You can change and life will get better. You just have to make better decisions

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Anonymous 4w

I'm not trying to be a bitch or encourage poor eating behaviors, but if you are super overweight and gaining/unable to lose weight, you are almost 100% consuming enough calories that you could cut either breakfast or lunch and still be hitting a healthy amount of food to meet your caloric needs. Breakfast is easy to cut and there are low sugar/low cal snacks if you need something to hold you over

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Anonymous 4w

In the most respectful way possible, if your upset about it then do something about it. It is your life, you have the power to take control. I understand that it’s not easy and you may have health complications, but you can become who you want to be. Show up for yourself. That’s how you learn to love yourself. You take care of somone you love. Take care of yourself first and then the lover will come. All love, oml I believe in you 🫶

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Anonymous 4w

if you’re struggling to lose weight, i’d defs see a doctor if you can!! i gained weight very fast and still can’t seem to lose it only to learn i have PCOS. but once you know how to go about it, it does get easier, trust.

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Anonymous 4w

Reach out to ivim and get on semaglutide. Change your life

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Anonymous 4w

Op I’m so sorry about how many people in here are acting like the most obvious solution is to push past your condition and lose weight anyway like it’s easy. But I can promise you that someone out there will love you for you, no matter if you can’t lose the weight, no matter if you do find a way. A good partner will help you through this

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Anonymous 4w

Lose some pounds and gain some confidence if people are messing around with you at this age they’re losers. I don’t get the jokes about people’s weights at this point half of America is overweight it’s not a big deal anymore

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Anonymous 5w

Then start running or working out, the best type of love comes from self love and romantic love follows

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Anonymous 4w

work on yourself, and head to the gym. if u want a change, make a change, don’t expect good things to come to u in life if you won’t work for it other than just sulking.

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Anonymous 4w

This is hard to hear but if you feel that way then work on your self and loose weight

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Anonymous 4w

Use me I’ll give anything that walks head

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Anonymous 4w

My dick is 9 inches long and I’m afraid of hurting my girlfriend

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Bro that was the point of my last sentence. I know self love comes first. And it’s not that simple. I DO work out. I have a medical problem that makes losing weight hard. I have an appt on Thursday about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

Cut it off then

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

Lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 4w

Breakfast yeah is easy to cut tbh. I don’t even have it most days

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 4w

I don’t eat breakfast. Honestly I wish yall would read replies before replying yourselves

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

yall mad abt my comment cuz it’s true😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

No, it’s because you can’t read

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Off topic, do you guys know what kingdom hearts is

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

i did, and she’s sulking about being fat, and not being loved for that. i was giving her advice to make a change for herself mentally and physically, but if the truth hurts her she can cry about it and deadass stay fat

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 4w

I have a medical condition that makes losing weight harder. I have an appointment on Thursday with my doctor about it. I already said this. Hence why I said you can’t read

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 4w

I love people with empathy and common sense ♥️ I hope you have a great life

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