Confessions on Sidechat | I’ve notice that when I (a white 18 yr old girl) compliment a white girl they go “aww thank you!” But if I compliment a black girl they ignore me or give me a side eye. Yes the compliments are normal. “You’re so pretty/beautiful” or “cute(accessory item)”

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Confessions 1d

I’ve notice that when I (a white 18 yr old girl) compliment a white girl they go “aww thank you!” But if I compliment a black girl they ignore me or give me a side eye. Yes the compliments are normal. “You’re so pretty/beautiful” or “cute(accessory item)”

Anonymous 1d

definitely nots universal thing but if i had to guess the reason for the pattern is a lot of us are accustomed to white girls giving compliments as condescension so it might be wariness due to that

Anonymous 1d

I’m not trying to make a racist point, I just wanna know if I’m doing something wrong or if there is a better way for me to compliment someone and let them know I just think they are a gorgeous human being. If there’s a better way for me to say it please let me know

Anonymous 1d

stay away from snowbunnjes. this is known

Anonymous

#2 1d

☹️ I don’t know a way to prove it’s not meant that way though. Is there a different way I can word it or something?

Anonymous

OP 1d

yea you can’t prove it but i wouldn’t stop giving the compliments even if they don’t receive them well outwardly subconsciously they do

Anonymous

#1 23h

………….. you think this girl is tryna fuck you?🤔